misslottie wrote:
i often get asked where im from, and have had a life long problem with mimicking people's accents
wow... yes absolutely. This is me exactly!
For starters, I was born in the United Sates and raised in suburban Florida. Mother and Father were from California. There is no reason why I should have an accent that derives from anything other than these.
Yet all the time, I am asked:
"Are you English? Are you from Australia? Where are you from? You sound like my friend from Canada! What kind of accent is that?"... I am always a bit confused. Do I really sound like that? I'm not trying to put on any kind of accent. At least, not consciously...
One thing I do notice quite often is how my accent changes depending on my company. If I am around people with a Southern accent, I toss in certain inflections and sounds to match. If I happen to be around people with a New England accent, the same thing happens.
I often think that I must have no distinct voice of my own... that it changes depending on the environment around me. The most common accents I notice tend to be vaguely English. Perhaps that is because I have historically kept a great deal of media around which does feature accents of that nature.
This all lends itself to the idea that the sound of my voice is a direct and immediate function of the voices I hear around me... that I don't seem to have any innate accent that was constructed during childhood, as would be customary of most people. It's like that process just didn't work with me, and my accent has remained fluid, when in other people it becomes naturally fixed.
This trait has been a very strong indicator of AS to me, as a number of diagnostic criteria (odd prosody and voice characteristics) relate to it. I've never understood any of it until I came to WP and found that, "oh! lots of other people do this crazy stuff!"
misslottie wrote:
i also really like and notice the sounds (acoustics and physical feel of words) of words
Yes. I have always been predisposed to listen to the SOUNDS of words, rather than the perceived continuity and content of speech. This is why people accuse me of not listening to them. I AM listening. But I'm listening to the sounds of their words and not necessarily the message they are trying to get across. It takes a good deal of effort to make sure that I do get whatever they are really saying.
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