Aspie Elitism
MissConstrue wrote:
I say we start a petition for the Aspies Elite and start a cult.....you know like scientology. We'll use dianetics to decide who is worthy of being on the autistic spectrum and who is not. Then we start the peking order of who is better than who based on the spectrum of their diagnosis. We then harry away those good for nothing NTs and then keep a watch out for those who haven't been officially diagnosed....they're probably spies anyway.
They can take away our lives but they can't take away our boards!!
![Image](http://i272.photobucket.com/albums/jj178/MissConstrue_2008/Photos%202/Emoticans/Horsey.gif)
They can take away our lives but they can't take away our boards!!
![Image](http://i272.photobucket.com/albums/jj178/MissConstrue_2008/Photos%202/Emoticans/Horsey.gif)
Like skins or shirts, will we divide ourselves into "Lowbies" and "Highbies"? Or how about "Diagnoses'ed" and "Wannabes"?
Do we get to pick sides, or do we stand around waiting to get picked (like dodgeball)?
In that case, will there be a third group for all the "Don't fit ins" who don't get invited to any meetings at all?
That might be the biggest group of all.
ephemerella wrote:
mosez wrote:
anna-banana wrote:
LOL Gary, personally I think you're one of the most "elitist" regular posters. you frequently stress differences and divisions between groups of people, you call normals idiots, and you keep on seeing aspie fakers everywhere, trying to prove their existence with your strange theories.
I find it amusing that you should be the one to start a thread against aspie elitism![Razz :P](./images/smilies/icon_razz.gif)
I find it amusing that you should be the one to start a thread against aspie elitism
![Razz :P](./images/smilies/icon_razz.gif)
Ok, me too. In my beginning at this site, I also got in an argue with Gary on the topic, how many here is autistic, or AS, or whatever.
I've been away for a while, and what do I see? Gary in a flame war with a neewbie. Why didn't LAU go in and lock that tread? He was very fast when I had a comment on climate change and the Vikings, wich are my ancessors. Was closed, or moved, immediatly.
Something is rotten here, so I came back just to leave for good.
In my first argue with Gary, I said that he want this site to be about him, or anyone that got the exact same traits that he's got.
That's what it takes to qualify, in his mind.
So, bye, bye to this waste of time s**thole.
It does seem a little weird that there's still "who's the real AS and who are the pretenders" flaming going on.
Don't go. You could maybe lurk and jump in only when you like a thread.
I see you're using that cute pic, again...
![Smile :)](./images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
Hm.. might just concider.. just that, while I've been away, it's like a hostile attitude has infected the site, can't quite explain.
Glad you think I'm cute on that pic, but that's me..
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mosez wrote:
... Hm.. might just concider.. just that, while I've been away, it's like a hostile attitude has infected the site, can't quite explain.
Glad you think I'm cute on that pic, but that's me..
Glad you think I'm cute on that pic, but that's me..
I know what you mean, trying to figure it out myself. I've been gone for a while, too.
Oh, hang around. Jump in when the Griping-About-Others voices subside. They will eventually b/c it's not that interesting a topic.
ephemerella wrote:
samtoo wrote:
garyww, it's certainly not easy to have such an insulting label attached to you if you're lower functioning... I feel bad for lower functioning Autistics who have to live with that level of cruel stupidity shown against them... if it's any help, I'm not with the masses on this one - I don't think people with low IQ's are necessarily stupid at all, for they themselves may be intelligent in very unconventional ways, and calling non threatening people in society stupid is an outrage anyway.
No, I don't think people who are in the lower functioning category are stupid.
No, I don't think people who are in the lower functioning category are stupid.
It's not possible to measure the intelligence of AS people, high functioning or low functioning autistic people both have intelligence that is not in the same universe as NTs. High functioning AS are just less "different" in ways that are helpful for supporting some external functions. There is a concept in mathematics called "topology", which basically means the landscape in which all units of information and their behavior can be represented. The "topology" -- or mental landscape -- of AS people are so different than NTs that you can't measure intelligence using NT yardsticks or tests. NT IQ tests mean nothing for AS intelligence.
What is a problem on this site is how the lower-functioning and/or lower I.Q. AS keep attacking and criticizing the discussions and personal behavior of higher-functioning and higher I.Q. AS.
It's as if the higher functioning and higher I.Q. AS have become a proxy for NTs on this site, and the less functioning AS are projecting their resentments and sense of injustice against NTs onto the higher functioning AS. You are forgetting that even higher functioning/high I.Q. still lack theory of mind and can be as socially clueless and unempathetic as any other AS.
To me, you all just sound like my parents, who wasted much of my time with them trying to get me to behave socially more sensitive and insightful, when that is my disability. You don't seem to recognize that higher functioning/high I.Q. AS still have social deficits and lack empathy, and that all this nagging and criticism about how insensitive or "ignorant" they are about the experience of other AS, is just more stuff nagging about things we can't help -- our social deficit -- that we have little control over.
Demanding more insight and sensitivity from higher-functioning/higher I.Q. AS is a pointless activity. High functioning or high-I.Q. or not, AS have social deficits. Continuing to bash the higher functioning/high I.Q. AS for their insensitivity and/or "ignorance" about the experience of other AS, implies that they have a theory of mind that allows them to choose to be insensitive or ignorant about the experience of others.
Don't you all recognize that you're treating the higher functioning/high I.Q. AS the way NTs treat all AS? As if the social insensitivity is some moral, character or conscious choice? Higher functioning and higher I.Q. doesn't mean the AS has theory of mind.
Get a life and stop acting like NTs picking on AS for lacking social skills as if we choose to lack them.
No no no! That's not what I implied at all!
I am not attacking Autistic people at all. I'm merely stating how some people can be towards anyone with mental conditions really... if I didn't express myself clearly, then sorry.
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Last edited by samtoo on 13 Mar 2009, 4:04 pm, edited 1 time in total.
To get an end of it all, why don't you cocksuckers demand a dx for posting at this forum? Ah.. and then the discussion would be like. how good are the doctor, low, high?
Why the f**k go here? Why don't everyone who want this site to just display just their point of view, just spend their days looking in a mirror?
Because, ladies and gentlemen, they also want somebody to peck on. Sorry to say, but that's the fact.
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ephemerella wrote:
ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
Good manners and civility are good ways to combat the hostility. Don't you think, Ephemerella?
I suppose I should pay attention to my social demeanor here, too
![Rolling Eyes :roll:](./images/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif)
It doesn't come naturally to me, especially when I'm being verbal.
beneath the glamorous avatar...there lies yet another heart of stone.
![Wink :wink:](./images/smilies/icon_wink.gif)
ephemerella wrote:
MissConstrue wrote:
I say we start a petition for the Aspies Elite and start a cult.....you know like scientology. We'll use dianetics to decide who is worthy of being on the autistic spectrum and who is not. Then we start the peking order of who is better than who based on the spectrum of their diagnosis. We then harry away those good for nothing NTs and then keep a watch out for those who haven't been officially diagnosed....they're probably spies anyway.
They can take away our lives but they can't take away our boards!!
![Image](http://i272.photobucket.com/albums/jj178/MissConstrue_2008/Photos%202/Emoticans/Horsey.gif)
They can take away our lives but they can't take away our boards!!
![Image](http://i272.photobucket.com/albums/jj178/MissConstrue_2008/Photos%202/Emoticans/Horsey.gif)
Like skins or shirts, will we divide ourselves into "Lowbies" and "Highbies"? Or how about "Diagnoses'ed" and "Wannabes"?
Do we get to pick sides, or do we stand around waiting to get picked (like dodgeball)?
In that case, will there be a third group for all the "Don't fit ins" who don't get invited to any meetings at all?
That might be the biggest group of all.
Something as such...Wannabes a very good name to give them. I mean who are they to know whether they have it or not?
I say our mascot be Xenu and then it be manadatory that we worship our great one with reverent correspondence.
![Image](http://i272.photobucket.com/albums/jj178/MissConstrue_2008/Photos%202/Emoticans/respect1.gif)
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samtoo wrote:
...No no no! That's not what I implied at all!
I am not attacking AS people at all. I'm merely stating how some people can be towards anyone with mental conditions really... if I didn't express myself clearly, then sorry.
I am not attacking AS people at all. I'm merely stating how some people can be towards anyone with mental conditions really... if I didn't express myself clearly, then sorry.
I'm sorry if I misinterpreted your post as saying higher functioning AS are being intentionally cruel and belittling toward low functioning AS here. IMO, most AS have social insensitivity and problems communicating effectively, as well as lacking empathy. Higher functioning AS can be no better with mind blindness than any other autistic in this regard. Sometimes it's hard for people to realize that higher functioning AS can be so socially mind-blind and clueless, because they seem capable in other ways, but there it is.
IMO most of what people complain about is probably unintentional and due to social skills deficits.
ephemerella wrote:
IMO most of what people complain about is probably unintentional and due to social skills deficits.
Yes, that's why it's so important for AS to cover that up with politeness, like they did in the old days. People learned how to be polite and civil, it didn't come naturally. It's protocol. Think of C-3PO from Star Wars. He was programmed to be a polite servant. I am going to keep C-3PO in mind from now on. He was a great go between and diplomat.
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