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Special? You're HERE aren't you? Special just like Garyww who can't find the play button (according to him) on a video but sure as Hell can friend underage girls on Myspace.

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Wow, so I am special?
/deliberately missing the insult

you know Whimsi-Cal, there are actually a few of us older ASD people here who are so bent out of shape when it comes to what is deemed "socially acceptable and normalised sexual and otherwise" behaviour and there ain't no neat box.

There are a few people who make no bones about those behaviours and proclivities and experiences and tendencies.

You know all this from your previous avatar/incarnation in the Adult section.

Since when were you the arbiter of what is right and wrong?
If someone chats with young fluff on MySpace so be it. it's their life.
If someone else likes other things i won't mention as we are not on an adult thread, so be it.

Here on WP there are all types. Some are wonderfullyand normally bent and left field in their thinking about all sorts of issues.

They are my kind of people.

It's a funny old world out there and some of us have lived funny old lives and continue to do so - lives that do not fit the social norm and the social dictates.
Rather than subscribing to trying to "change" ourselves, we slide off into old age increasingly content with our perversities and proclivities and fantasies and eccentricities because that is, at the end of the day, the raw reality of ALL THAT IS LEFT.

There is nothing else but beautiful WEIRDNESS in all its magnificent guises. The kind of weirdness i find perfectly normal.

i suspect the problem is you are unable to comprehend that.
You have a very pronounced persecution complex.

I have never intentionally tried to shoo anyone away from WP. It's a public site. open to all.
I have simply put forward opinions...strong opinions at times...and honest.

and bring the preppie avatar pic back....you are looking too much like Oblio.
i wish you well on your journey ....last time i engage.

ON WITH THE SHOW... THIS IS IT

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Hokey jeepers, I am busy for a few days and come back to this! Maybe I am just transparent and shallow, but what the heck does garyww say or do that could offend anyone? maybe I am just too aspie to notice anything.

Some poster put an extra dubya in his name, so he looked like a website--this is all I ever noticed a few days ago.

But you know, I do not post my real feelings here, if I have any. I have never been one to talk about what bothers me. I learned a long time ago it was foolish. Even strong political views are best kept under wraps. I came close a few times and felt the heat, so I save certain stuff for my private blog/diary, inaccessible to others.

This is stupid!

This thread should have been titled something like "I think I'm a victim, and desire war!" Both of ya acting like you are so mature and rational here.. SIGH (going with what I read here.)

To Garyww (yes I suck at spelling. It's preschool basic, obviously.)

If you actualy think a diagnosis makes an autistic Valid? Let me say.. OH PLEASE...... Think about how stupid it sounds even! "You are not an Autistic till you have a wad of paper that says you are one!." Now that's fake, if you ask me. After all, one doesn't become Autistic from testing, a person is an Autistic before a diagnosis or test. That's why we get them to start with, is because we know we are different! Do not smear it in the face of people who havn't had the chance, or the money to diagnose, if you are doing so. (I don't have proof of this having happened)

Whimsi-cal

You hate me? I don't #@%$ care! (like you do to begin with) I don't have concerns about you either, because we don't know each other even slightly, nore are we friends for that matter. And about humans being oppinionated, selfish, and the like? What the hell did you think you were dealing with? All humans are naturaly designed to want personal superiority, period. Known fact amung our own species.

You are flamming Garyww, for starters! (yes, that annoys me. Despite what you claim happened!) Feel free to leave any time, so you can chill out! I know what real hate is. You're simply angry or just stirring up everyone!

While you are at it... you might want to consider appologising to everyone you cheewed at, who had nothing to do with it.

What-ever.. (I do this when someone get's my attention, you know)

QFT.

I've had many people single me out online. Do I argue with them? No. Hey, buddy it's your own problem if you don't like me. This is the internet and I don't let things like that get to me. If they do (some people can get very very nasty and use anything to take you down) I will stay offline for a day or until I feel ok again.

What's up man?

Whats QFT?

"Quite f*****g true"!




No really, it is "Quoted for truth".

re QFT.
I have wondered what it means for bloody ages.
thanks for the query and the above answer, previous posters.

Liendaballa said:

Obviously you have never read many of my threads or posts in detail of you'd know what my personal opinions are about autism. Here you are just spouting somebody else's opinions of my beliefs.

lol thanks

got me too.

It's unfortunate that somebody isn't willing to come here and present with a single login entity and be a regular member of the discussion group and stick it out when the going gets a little rough.

You're right. It is unfortunate. I think such behaviour comes under the rubric of "coping mechanism." That is to say, when the argument becomes too unpleasant, the parties involved either voluntarily remove themselves (or are removed by the powers-that-be), reassemble themselves in a new configuration, and re-enter the fray.

The stereotypical Aspie — if such a person exists — knows about this from real-life experience. You do your best to pass for normal; to fit in. Eventually you fail. You move from one city to the next, from one social milieu to the next, one job to the next. Sometimes you're optimistic ("This time I'm really going to make it work!"). Sometimes you're grateful simply to walk away. Other times you feel a heavy burden of unfinished business, of unresolved grievance. The temptation to revisit the scene of the crime (if you will ) is irresistible.

The older I get, the less I want to waste time masquerading as one thing and then another. So I don't even try. I post in several discussion fora with the same username and avatar. It's less hassle.

The Internet is a favourable climate for personal reinvention, but even those most skilled at creating "alternate personae" can be seen for who they really are by anyone with the eyes to look.

Big ups to millie and sartresue for their astute observations.

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I just read your post. I was going to say something positive(honest) when I read your astute observation (bolded above). Your thumbs up to Millie and me was very kind. I rarely get compliments, so when I do, I am grateful. Thank you.