Driving...how many with AS here drive?

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zer0netgain
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14 May 2009, 8:26 pm

I drive, but my AS doesn't affect it.

I ride motorcycles, do a lot of touring. I don't have great reflexes, and I wonder if part of that is because of AS.



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14 May 2009, 10:06 pm

I drive...

I love my car, it's the "portable territory" that makes me feel safe.



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15 May 2009, 7:15 pm

I'd like him to at least learn and get a license, but then if he chooses not to drive then so be it...I have no issues with that.



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15 May 2009, 7:43 pm

I drive, and the people on the road are usually a pain in the @$$, ether they drive too slow, too fast or they cut me off. Otherwise it's cool I can go wherever I want.


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16 May 2009, 4:53 pm

I tried to learn to drive, but failed the test three times. Operating the vehicle did not cause me much of a problem; it was reading the road I had difficulty with. I couldn't concentrate on so many things at once and would miss seeing people, other vehicles, signs, etc.



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16 May 2009, 5:57 pm

I drive because I must. It gives me independence and freedom. Plus driving isn't that difficult because I drive an automatic which takes very little skill. I'll admit I can't drive in any big cities, just some towns and that's it.



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16 May 2009, 7:05 pm

I just started learning how to drive this past year, and I'm 30. My friend started me off in a grave yard (that way anyone I hit was already dead). Unfortunately I had to take a break, but now I'm back at it and loving it. I find driving very relaxing now, unlike when I was 16, it was nerve racking and horrible. Your boyfriend will know when he is ready, it took me 14yrs to get here. :D
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16 May 2009, 8:21 pm

Asuigeneris1 wrote:
I apologize if this topic is a dead horse somewhere else on the site, I hadn't seen it as of yet.

My BF won't drive, he went on only one lesson and although he was fine at it...he just shut the idea down after that one jaunt in a parking lot.

He feels his vision is too poor, his ability to keep focused on all that driving entails...and mainly I think it just stresses him out, which is fine no pressure here.

What are your experiences with driving?


I learned how to drive late in life (age 24). I have been driving since 1960. Of late I consider driving a pain in the butt, but given the primitive state of public transit in the U.S.A. I am stuck with the task. Whenever possible, I walk or ride my bike.

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16 May 2009, 9:00 pm

ruevyn, you're 73??? I am almost 50 and I remember when I thought 50 was old and 70 was ancient. Now I feel like 50 and 70 are still young : )



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17 May 2009, 12:13 am

I drive, and notwithstanding the many very crazy/stupid drivers out there (or at least here), I quite like it, and I think I am good at it.



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17 May 2009, 12:43 am

I am unable to safely operate a motor-vehicle on a public road, nor do I consider that it is plausible I could learn to do so.



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17 May 2009, 1:28 pm

zer0netgain wrote:
I drive, but my AS doesn't affect it.

I ride motorcycles, do a lot of touring. I don't have great reflexes, and I wonder if part of that is because of AS.


I've rode bikes since I was 17 and I too don't have very good machine control despite over 30 years experience. Don't get me wrong I'm a better rider than 90% of other riders on the road but I know I'll never get any better, lack of any natural balance will always hinder me.

As for cars I never drove a car until I was almost 40 then I decided I needed a van so passed my test and then never sat behind a steering wheel again for another 5 years. Eventualy I had to get a car for work but I hate driving, bikes are the perfect aspie transport for me.



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17 May 2009, 4:42 pm

I am 33 and I have been driving since I was 16/17, (on small streets only and not everyday). I got my DL when I was 18.

My first car that I ever drove was a minivan (those old Dodges) and I learned how to brake in that old thing. I also had to get over my fear of other drivers since I had a hip accident when I was 13 (I had dislocated my right hip and I was very over-protective of it).

By the time I was 18 in 1993, I purchased an old 1977 Dodge Colt with the red stripe down the middle. My step-father taught me how to shift on a road behind our house. I'd pop the clutch every time. Man that thing ate oil like a child loves candy.

If I had to purchase a car now-I'm not sure if I'd go for the stick. I've been driving an automatic since my Nissan totalled in 2003. I like the idea of taking off fast and shifting, but I'm getting lazy-and I like having an automatic.

Driving can get to me (I get tired) after a long drive, but I think that is more of a human thing-not an AS thing. Driving takes a lot of concentration and eyes need to be everywhere. Paying attention to yourself AND other drivers is a skill and driving is a priviledge, not a right. I'm not sure what will happen when my mother gets older (she is already 57) and can not drive anymore. That is the # 1 thing that makes adults-adults-the ability to say "Bye, I'm going...." Kids don't do that. They walk or skateboard. What a shock to someone's adult culture to have to start depending on others to go somewhere, after YEARS of driving! What a drag!

For now, I enjoy driving. I hope I never have to see the day when I can not drive anymore due to my old age.



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19 May 2009, 5:39 am

You guys have all been great...just wanted to say thank you for sharing of yourselves with me. :lol: