100 Ways to Annoy Somebody With Asperger's Syndrome

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Talk to someone like you don't epathise with the said person and accuse the said aspie of lacking empathy. Also asking for specifics.

An allistic person expecting an aspie to show compassion when he or she has received none.

Allistic people trying to play for sympathy for a particular charitable cause and want an aspie/autie to donate to the said popular charity for example children with cancer or AIDS when autistic children was brutalised and told all they needed was more discipline.

You look normal to me to I can't make allowances. Allistics have no right to use our Asperger syndrome as an exuse because they look as though they have Asperger syndrome it gives them no right to act as twats and accuse us for doing likewise. Including the excuse making.

Allistics being emotionally abusive to AS people in a workplace and making excuses he or she was intelligent/able so We assumed you ccould cope with almost anything. If we could cope with almost anything it does not give you the right to put that to the test.

Saying that neurotypical traits such as creepieness and deception was linked to AS which is allistic society is not very original in their ideas about Asperger syndrome. Because these ideas put out in the media was regurgitated propaganda by some far right wing aspies about allistic people.

Trying to make someone feel that they cannot do anything right and wonder why the emotional bond between an NT and an aspie is somehow weakened.

Expecting to be forgiven for abuse that would now be considered an atrocity and not regretting anything about it or playing it down. That's just a few.

OMG this recently happened to me. A friend stayed at my place to keep my cat company while I was having a hip replacement. I came home to find the furniture all moved around and my computer set-up rearranged. I couldn't put the place back together for more than a month because of the surgery. It was awful. I felt really violated by it. This is my space, and no-one has permission to change it to what they prefer

Deliberately make loud, sudden noises around them just to see them react, then tease them about their stimming by mimicking it and asking, "Are you going to fly away, birdie?"

Oh, most definitely!
My room is what I like to call "organised mess". It looks terrible at first glance [probably really bad for NTs] but I know where everything I need is.
If I clean it up, which I do do [I'm not THAT bad ] then I still know.
But if somebody else tidies up, I will have zero idea where things are. My idea of what drawers are for what are going to be different to someone else's.
Then I have to spend ages finding everything, making a mess again, before organising it myself.

Luckily, everyone who would do this has learnt it years ago, and leaves me to it / asks me to do it myself.

The owner of my last job was like this. He had OCPD. I actually used the words organized mess to him. I would take a motorcycle apart, and he had to clean, and rearrange everything, when I was not there. He's soo fired. After people do that, it is like working on a basket case. .

There is no emicon with flames protruding out of its head. We need one.

"You don't have Aspergers, you are a psuedo intellectual hyped up as*hole that supports hyper eugenics and simply focus on this praise to get attention and admiration on something you don't even have"

"Infact you have no concept on how to rise on eugenics as it is"

"You also prey on nieve or other autist girls for you own self satisfaction yet you have the hyporcisy to linger on something on NT status".

" I want an NT girlfriend I want and NT girlfriend" "She's weird and autistic, what a f*****g ret*d!"

Clearly, the information that you want to know is none of your business, and the person who isn't answering doesn't want to say, and you are being rude. Personally, I'd forget "polite", and say "None of your business." But I'm old, and it's easier to get away with it.

The problem with this is that how am I supposed to know that I am asking a question someone doesn't want to answer before asking it? Then I am rude by asking? I think that it is rude if I *continue* to ask when it is clear someone doesn't want to answer. But how can I be rude just by asking the first time? I find being ignored with no explanation rude. If someone says, "I don't want to say", alright - I know it's their issue. But just to be silent communicates that there *might* be a problem with me, and then leaving me in the dark about what it is.

One gets to know another by asking questions. It's kind of hard to know ahead of time when one might step over the line into asking something that the other finds offensive, especially if the other is particularly closed.

If they're just walking by your house on the sidewalk and you collar them and ask where they're going, and they say "Out" then it should be fairly clear that they don't want to answer with specifics, or have this "conversation" with you, or grilling by you (that was the original situation complained about. Anyway, did you ever hear of "Invasion of Privacy"? Or the social rule (if you're already in the conversation with them), "Don't ask personal questions"? That's something you don't even need to have "Social Skills Training" to get: your mother should have told you. It's not subtle. The only exception would be a parent asking a child (or teenager) who's leaving the house, since the parent is responsible for the "child"'s behavior.

Read about Temple Grandin's early life. Her basic "Social Skills Training" was the same training every child got in the fifties from their parents, only then it was called "Good Manners".

Yes! This one is so dang insulting.

Yes it was. And they made sure we learned it - forcefully if necessary. Rudeness was very quickly stopped in its tracks, both at home and school. If they went a bit too far then, it seems to me that many parents don't go far enough now. One three year old, in front of her adoring parents, tried to hit me with a stick and told me I was stupid. They smiled on adoringly. No limits set, no consequences. She is now 15, narcissistic, extremely demanding, totally insensitive to their feelings and drives them mad

If I had all the rules of social etiquette figured out, I wouldn't be here on this site. I would have just "picked them up." And, if it is *possible* that one grew up in a family where AS traits reigned, it is *possible* that one DID NOT get all the necessary social training.

And everyone has different levels of privacy. What is a "personal question" to one is not to another. If I ask one acquaintance if he/she has a sister, that's OK. If I ask another, I get silence. That's not about my question - that's about the person answering (or not) - and something I can't know ahead of time.

Questions indicate I am interested in getting to know a person. If someone doesn't want to answer, I let it go. Sometimes I ask a wrong question. Most of the time, I do not. But someone who doesn't want to answer *any* questions doesn't want to be known. I can't help that.

say" You don't act anything like Rainman."

When somebody gets mad, texts you, and writes "YOU NEED TO CALL ME A**HOLE!!" They get even more mad, because you text them back and write "o.k., you're an a**hole."

Very annoying.

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