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30 Sep 2010, 2:26 am

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Hey TheDoctor,

I read your PM. It was an interesting piece. I think however that there may be an over-simplification in the terms of the perceived benefits from 'shipping jobs overseas'. There are multiple facets, but I will only discuss a few below, and with extreme levels of simplicity.

The first is what has been termed 'the value of nothing'. In the economic prosperity that existed in the both Pre- and Post-WWII, the elements of circulating currency were more or less fully contained. In other words, the wages of the workers, the associated operating expences, etc., remained within the USA, and more importantly, within the local economy. Now that so much labor is outsourced, there is a certain percent of that money that is slowly leaking out with no reciprocation. A drain on our available monitary resource, the wages, the buying power. Beyond that, and more importantly, the 'value of nothing' specifically exists in reference to standard "modern" economic theory, where pricing is a principle of manufacture-cost and 'what the market will bear' in the way of profit. The difference in the two figures for the most part was always tangible, it just wasn't feasible to produce something for next to nothing and turn a exorbitant profit. There of course are always going to be a few exceptions, as in highly prized and scarce commodities, but in any case the current disparity between manufacture-cost and sale price is the 'value of nothing', where in classic economic theory being able to manufacture for less meant you could sell more products at lower prices to more people to maximize profit, it now means you pull new profit-resource from somewhere else within the process. The economic prosperity you mention to which previous generations enjoyed was contingent on the high wages, that the wages were 'adequate' to live 'the American dream'. They would consume with their wages, and produce to earn them back again. That same 'prosperity' is not being experienced by the workers who are the product of outsourced labor. Their earnings is namely where the profit-resource is being yielded. In fact, many trillions of dollars have been robbed from what should be the reciprocative fruits of their labor, the wages to afford 'the American dream'. They don't experience the same consumer power that previous generations of Americans enjoyed. The notion that exporting labor is comparable in benefit to prior generations' prosperity in America is erroneous at best and founded in zealotry at worst.

Second to this, is the profit motive in low or unregulated production environments. To do the very complex things that are required for our modern manufacturing techniques, namely in chemical production and processing, while also maintaining excellence in human and environmental safety is very expensive. If you aren't required to maintain safety, emissions, working conditions, etc. your operations costs go down. This is a second impact of outsourced labor, where there is a horrific level of toxicity being introduced to many of the workers, depending on their particular working conditions, and to the surrounding environment in general. If you want a worse-case scenario on this, do a little reading on the Bhopal disaster. There are countless similar examples, though many are far far less in severity though still severe none the less. It is the aggregate pollution and toxicity that matters the most. To not expect or impose the same level of regulations that exist for safety within our own borders while operating overseas is an ultimate hypocricy in the cliche of the "American way", to allow companies to use toxic chemicals in manufacture and as ingredients is a crime against humanity and an willful oversight caused by a ferverent desire to 'not hurt the economy'.

Third is a related circumstance where the end consumer is exposed to toxicity. First it is important to get the image of glowing green radiating bars out of the mind. I am talking about the chemicals used in modern manufacture methods and as ingredients. There are several components of convenience and profitability in manufacture that has nothing to do with the benefit of the end consumer, which used to be of very high importance, because quality items did not sell (or at least well enough to survive the market) in prior economic conditions, and as we 'progressed', better and better safety standards were developed which benefited workers, who were also consumers. Since the consumer is now not the primary focus, neither is their health or well being. The result is slow exposure to toxic chemicals in low to moderate doses, depending on what products are being used/consumed/lathered on the body. Sort of like homeopathic poisoning. Its not as bad for us as it is to the laborers who endure the active manufacture process, but it is still not good, nor in good faith in regard to the "American way", which is really just a puppet show in a house of cards.

Although I would like to for reference, I won't post what you wrote me out of respect for the etiquette associated with private messages, but must ask to the context. You said it was an article you wrote yet I find no reference to it anywhere online, is it truly an article or just something you wrote? In appropriate context, the term article implies publication. Perhaps you could post it here so any readers, if they are interested, can understand what this all means..?

Many numerous other circumstances exist parallel to these issues.


I also wish you had simply PM'ed me this rather than typing it here, as this post isn't necessary in this thread. I will be responding to you shortly via PM, and please do the same with any responses thereafter, a'right?



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30 Sep 2010, 2:57 am

holding grudges


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30 Sep 2010, 3:01 am

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holding grudges


actually to an extent I don't believe they do this; it's only for a short time, and then all is forgiven...what I don't understand is that it gets forgiven even for pretty massive stuff.



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30 Sep 2010, 3:28 am

Pride.

"You should be proud of what you've done."

Why?

I am satisfied when I complete a task, not proud.
I don't like bragging.
In fact, I feel so false when I'm forced to advertise myself to other people.
Why can't they just look at what I've done and judge me on that?
Why do I have to do a "sales" pitch and pretend that I'm proud when I don't feel proud?

I could list all the things that I've done.
I'm proud of none of them, just quietly satisfied if I've done a satisfactory job.

Also people saying:
"We're so proud of you!"

How is that supposed to help?

Surely satisfaction of a job well done comes from within?

Why not just say: "Good work." and leave it at that?



When people have said that they felt proud of me, it's been counter productive.
It made me feel embarassed and overloaded with uncomfortably claustrophobic emotions.
I felt the pressure being piled on.

Sure enough, I failed the next time.

The most helpful people were the ones who critically evaluated my work and said "Good job" when it was due and left it at that. They didn't lie and give inflated opinions of my abilities.

Acting proud because someone else has told you to be proud comes across as arrogant.

Also, the people who tell you to be proud end up incredibly disappointed when you don't meet their unrealistically high expectations.

What's the point of being "proud" other than posturing?

I'm not proud of anything that I've done.

I can do what I can do.

That's it.



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30 Sep 2010, 3:51 am

AmberEyes wrote:
Pride.

"You should be proud of what you've done."

Why?

I am satisfied when I complete a task, not proud.
I don't like to go bragging.
In fact, I feel so false when I'm forced to advertise myself to other people.
Why can't they just look at what I've done and judge me on that?
Why do I have to do a "sales" pitch and pretend that I'm proud when I don't feel proud?

I could list all the things that I've done.
I'm proud of none of them, just quietly satisfied if I've done a satisfactory job.

Also parents saying:
"We're so proud of you!"

How is that supposed to help?

Surely satisfaction of a job well done comes from within?

When people have said that they felt proud of me, it's been counter productive.
It made me feel embarassed and overloaded with uncomfortably claustrophobic emotions.
I felt the pressure being piled on.

Sure enough, I failed the next time.

The most helpful people were the ones who critically evaluated my work and said "Good job" when it was due and left it at that. They didn't lie and give inflated opinions of my abilities.

Acting proud because someone else has told you to be proud comes across as arrogant.

Also, the people who tell you to be proud end up incredibly disappointed when you don't meet their unrealistically high expectations.

What's the point of being "proud" other than posturing?

I'm not proud of anything that I've done.

I can do what I can do.

That's it.




so in your mind you don't believe you've accomplished any really important achievements for yourself? Arrogance and pride are not the same thing.

Pride is being dignified about yourself for the right reasons. Arrogance is a false sense of being dignified...for obviously the wrong reasons.



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30 Sep 2010, 6:09 am

[quote = "TheDoctor82"]
so in your mind you don't believe you've accomplished any really important achievements for yourself? Arrogance and pride are not the same thing.

Pride is being dignified about yourself for the right reasons. Arrogance is a false sense of being dignified...for obviously the wrong reasons.[/quote]

No.
I feel selfish and uncomfortable when I'm told I should be proud.

What's important?

The Dodo in Alice in Wonderland said: "All have won...all must have prizes."

Who decides what's important and what isn't?

Some people would view my "achievements" as important, others would not.
Others would probably look at what I've done and not deem it "good enough".

Think about it.
If I get a prize for doing something, it means that I have blocked someone else from getting that prize. By winning that prize and feeling "proud" of my "achievements" I am being incredibly selfish. Not only that, other people would feel jealous of my "pride" in that situation.

Other people are made to feel jealous by other people saying:
"We're so proud of our little Tommy! Look at what he can do!"

Tommy could get bullied for being "proud" and having "proud" parents in this situation.

I also don't understand phrases like:

"I'm proud to be a woman."

Why be proud of something you had no choice over?[quote]



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30 Sep 2010, 6:24 am

The seven deadly sins:

* Gula (gluttony)
* Fornicatio (fornication, lust)
* Avaritia (avarice/greed)
* Tristitia (sorrow/despair)
* Ira (wrath)
* Acedia (acedia)
* Vanagloria (vainglory)
* Superbia (hubris, pride)

bein' aspie dont make everyone a saint, but its hard to sin when your on your own, except for...

Acedia (also accidie or accedie, from Latin acidĭa, and this from Greek ἀκηδία, negligence) describes a state of listlessness or torpor, of not caring or not being concerned with one's position or condition in the world. It can lead to a state of being unable to perform one's duties in life. Its spiritual overtones make it related to but distinct from depression.[1] Acedia was originally noted as a problem among monks and other ascetics who maintained a solitary life.



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30 Sep 2010, 6:29 am

Flash cars. I drive low end budget econo boxes, and cant understand the whole luxury car thing.



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30 Sep 2010, 6:36 am

AmberEyes wrote:
[quote = "TheDoctor82"]
so in your mind you don't believe you've accomplished any really important achievements for yourself? Arrogance and pride are not the same thing.

Pride is being dignified about yourself for the right reasons. Arrogance is a false sense of being dignified...for obviously the wrong reasons.


No.
I feel selfish and uncomfortable when I'm told I should be proud.

What's important?

The Dodo in Alice in Wonderland said: "All have won...all must have prizes."

Who decides what's important and what isn't?

Some people would view my "achievements" as important, others would not.
Others would probably look at what I've done and not deem it "good enough".

Think about it.
If I get a prize for doing something, it means that I have blocked someone else from getting that prize. By winning that prize and feeling "proud" of my "achievements" I am being incredibly selfish. Not only that, other people would feel jealous of my "pride" in that situation.

Other people are made to feel jealous by other people saying:
"We're so proud of our little Tommy! Look at what he can do!"

Tommy could get bullied for being "proud" and having "proud" parents in this situation.

I also don't understand phrases like:

"I'm proud to be a woman."

Why be proud of something you had no choice over?
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I see.................

Something tells me I should just bail from this one as fast as possible.....



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30 Sep 2010, 7:12 am

Why the female NTs have to say "like", "a" and "totally" all the time.


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30 Sep 2010, 7:21 am

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Why the female NTs have to say "like", "a" and "totally" all the time.



they still do that? I thought it was a Valley Girl thing?

And speaking of which...don't see the movie; it's really, really bad....



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30 Sep 2010, 12:07 pm

TheDoctor82 wrote:
CockneyRebel wrote:
Why the female NTs have to say "like", "a" and "totally" all the time.



they still do that? I thought it was a Valley Girl thing?

And speaking of which...don't see the movie; it's really, really bad....


Hey thanks for that Doc. The way you correct everyone, you must be the man round here?



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30 Sep 2010, 1:05 pm

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I still fail to understand the excitement of standing/sitting in front of a stage for several hours watching one's favorite artists song on stage. I don't care if they start humping the stage or pyrotechnics are set off. Other than singing, and dancing a bit, they don't seem to doing anything really exciting....so I don't understand how one can be so easily entertained for several hours.

In fact, a year ago or so my girlfriend and I watched some on-stage presentation of these Shaolin Monks or something. It was sorta interesting, but I wasn't blown away by it like the rest of the audience. The way I saw it: "well, of course they're doing totally amazing stunts; they're trained to. And it's not like they're bringing the "lower-classman" on this tour; they bring their top students. What exactly is so amazing about all of this? I'd be like getting amazed watching a really good cashier do his stuff...what's the excitement all about? It's what he's trained to do."

When I attend a concert, or any performance, my enjoyment is impacted by the way the music, or whatever makes me feel, and whether it is stimulating. Am I energized by the feel of the performance. I use stimulating music to recharge my batteries, in the same manner that many High Sensation seeking folks use roller coaster rides for that purpose. Does that make sense?



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30 Sep 2010, 1:26 pm

TheDoctor82 wrote:
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How they show very little empathy for us, yet they expect us to have empathy for them.


this, completely

For me to empathize with you, I must find something in me that is like you, or similar enough that I can create a mental image of what it is like to be you and then mentally run this created image in various circumstances and try to figure out how you probably think, and how it feels to experience from your point of view. Of course discovering how it feels to be other people is a hobby of mine. That's one reason why I visit here.

One reason for this 'we / they' mentality that goes on here, I expect, is because most NTs have little in their own experience to relate to what you experience, and visa versa. NT's empathize easily with other's experiences that they recognize in themselves. That doesn't take any effort.



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30 Sep 2010, 1:30 pm

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Flash cars. I drive low end budget econo boxes, and cant understand the whole luxury car thing.

This I think is a combination of the status of owning one, what it says about you/them to other about you/them as it's owner, and how that makes you/them feel.



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willmark wrote:
TheDoctor82 wrote:
CockneyRebel wrote:
How they show very little empathy for us, yet they expect us to have empathy for them.


this, completely

For me to empathize with you, I must find something in me that is like you, or similar enough that I can create a mental image of what it is like to be you and then mentally run this created image in various circumstances and try to figure out how you probably think, and how it feels to experience from your point of view. Of course discovering how it feels to be other people is a hobby of mine. That's one reason why I visit here.

One reason for this 'we / they' mentality that goes on here, I expect, is because most NTs have little in their own experience to relate to what you experience, and visa versa. NT's empathize easily with other's experiences that they recognize in themselves. That doesn't take any effort.


yet you're still expecting it from us? :roll: