have you ever run into one of your old bullies?

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Almost ran into a kid I REALLY HATED from when I worked at Hollister who used me - he was obsessed with smack talking, Honda and soccer. Let's just say me and him were lucky this happened at Costco. If it happened at Home Depot or Wal-Mart, that douche would have gotten a face full of Behr paint or Pennzoil 20W-50.

I was picked on by loads of people while I was school, one of the biggest being a guy called Michael. Well Michael, he was the "hardest in his year", he thought that he was so damm good, everybody flocked around him, especially the girls. I took him and all his mates on, big time. Well, at the end of my school life, him and everybody that bullied me suffered a serious of social misfortunes and Michael eventually moved to Liverpool for 2 years. I saw him after he got back and he looked a right 'un, he had lost his "status". The last I heard, he was involved in wheeling and dealing certain things, kinda like a legitimate racketeer.

As for me, I have done massively well since school, financially wise, coping wise and almost everything else wise. Almost all of the bullies are either dead, in jail, or committing crimes with the full knowledge of their downfall as the police know about their activities. Because they all snubbed me at school, I never went with them and fell like they did, I prospered because they didn't keep an eye on me - very big mistake.

I'm not your typical Aspie, I don't have my own little world, I suffer and success in the real world, the NT world. I don't have social phobia's like I used to, I outgrew my earlier years in life and I am still going. Oh, and financially, I am climbing slowly ever higher, thanks to my brain and my entrepaneur attitude. One of these days, I will have it all.

Question. Why is it that bullies tend to be popular and have friends?

That must be great Craig!

You are way better than the bullies. If only I can find out my old bullies pass and current and what their lives are now.

Oh yes. Last December. I was Christmas shopping for my boyfriend with my mom. These girls were my "friends". More like nasty mean people who pretended and hurt me at every opportunity. My mom whispered to me that she saw them but didn't remember who they were. They came up to me, I said hi. turned away and went back to what I was doing. I was very proud of myself. They backed off very slowly.

I remember when I went to church and I saw one of the bullies. I asked her if she has seen Amy. The bully was with her mom. The bully was so cruel and said to me no she hasn't seen Amy. To be mean and cruel in a church and in front of her mom! If my child was mean and cruel to someone in front of me I would have words with my child. Are parents that blind? Teach your children to respect others!

Not a bully per say, but a that nuisance got me into detention....luckily I only saw them from afar.

Ahhh... Chuck will never be the same again

No, I haven't actually. And that's probably a really good thing. I never thought I'd say this, but maybe being faceblind isn't so bad after all.