b9 wrote:
anbuend wrote:
Very few people with very high IQs "live up to their potential", which leads me to think that the idea that an IQ represents potential is itself a pretty ridiculous idea.
you are not disabled in your linguistic and conceptual intelligence as far as i can see.
Then you don't know me. At all. I have a limited ability to use language or concepts, I use them to communicate on boards like this, and then they disappear. As in, entirely disappear. As in, are not there, not even the tiniest little bit, not even the amount they would be in a person who has an "obvious" but steady-leveled impairment in the area (and yet has a much much stabler level of it, so actually in some ways finds it easier than I do). Every time that I have to use language or concept, it means I have to essentially climb a cliff, which I will fall off of every time. Please avoid telling me about myself in the future. It's offensive to go to all this trouble and then be told there's no trouble at all. And I haven't even gone into my receptive language, which is
massively impaired in comparison to the best of my expressive language (and has always, always tested that way, because I literally learned to fake expressive language at an age when I
had no receptive language or conceptualization at all whatsoever, but simply responded in a sensory-based way). If you don't understand this sort of experience, then don't pretend to be able to know about it by reading the best of my writing. I can't describe what a stab in the back it is to go to all this trouble to explain the problem and then be told there's no problem at all. (And you obviously haven't seen the many, many times that language slips for me in very obvious way while posting on these boards, either, or... so many, many other things that show it blatantly to anybody who actually knows what to look for, as opposed to making judgements based on superficial traits.)
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