auntblabby
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13 Aug 2011, 1:53 am
David23 wrote:
If they would just tell me it would be a lot easier! 
say it, brother
13 Aug 2011, 12:02 pm
Daryl_Blonder wrote:
johnnydangerous wrote:
Physically I'm an attractive dude, but it doesnt seem to matter. Women initially talk to me and make comments about my appearence (you're cute, or he's cute to their friend etc.). But...then they notice you act a bit "quirky" and you can see the wheels turn in their heads. "What would my friends think? I can't associate with this guy" is what I imagine they think.
You can look like Tom Cruise, and it won'tr matter if you have AS. Nobody is going to like you.
It amazes me how instead of saying "Wow, he's unique AND handsome, I want to get to know this guy!" they say "Oh...well he's cute but he doesn't act like everyone else. He doesn't act THE SAME WAY like all my other fake friends, so I think I'll pass on him".
People are so predictable, and in a sad way. Despite being physically attractive, and personable in my way, I'll never find a woman to love me. I think that's sad, especialy when you see some of the ugly dudes (inside and out) picking up chicks left and right because they understand the weird "social rules" and I don't. They know when to look away, when to blink, and I don't.
I feel like I don't belong here.
You can look like Tom Cruise, and it won'tr matter if you have AS. Nobody is going to like you.
It amazes me how instead of saying "Wow, he's unique AND handsome, I want to get to know this guy!" they say "Oh...well he's cute but he doesn't act like everyone else. He doesn't act THE SAME WAY like all my other fake friends, so I think I'll pass on him".
People are so predictable, and in a sad way. Despite being physically attractive, and personable in my way, I'll never find a woman to love me. I think that's sad, especialy when you see some of the ugly dudes (inside and out) picking up chicks left and right because they understand the weird "social rules" and I don't. They know when to look away, when to blink, and I don't.
I feel like I don't belong here.
You need to go to a strip club, my friend...
...where you are the diamond in the rough, and you can throw all the above-stated garbage out the window where it belongs.
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You can't touch at most strip clubs. Actually, if he's as good looking as he says he is, they would likely allow him to even if it were against the rules.
13 Aug 2011, 12:41 pm
johnnydangerous wrote:
Physically I'm an attractive dude, but it doesnt seem to matter. Women initially talk to me and make comments about my appearence (you're cute, or he's cute to their friend etc.). But...then they notice you act a bit "quirky" and you can see the wheels turn in their heads. "What would my friends think? I can't associate with this guy" is what I imagine they think.
You can look like Tom Cruise, and it won'tr matter if you have AS. Nobody is going to like you.
It amazes me how instead of saying "Wow, he's unique AND handsome, I want to get to know this guy!" they say "Oh...well he's cute but he doesn't act like everyone else. He doesn't act THE SAME WAY like all my other fake friends, so I think I'll pass on him".
People are so predictable, and in a sad way. Despite being physically attractive, and personable in my way, I'll never find a woman to love me. I think that's sad, especialy when you see some of the ugly dudes (inside and out) picking up chicks left and right because they understand the weird "social rules" and I don't. They know when to look away, when to blink, and I don't.
I feel like I don't belong here.
You can look like Tom Cruise, and it won'tr matter if you have AS. Nobody is going to like you.
It amazes me how instead of saying "Wow, he's unique AND handsome, I want to get to know this guy!" they say "Oh...well he's cute but he doesn't act like everyone else. He doesn't act THE SAME WAY like all my other fake friends, so I think I'll pass on him".
People are so predictable, and in a sad way. Despite being physically attractive, and personable in my way, I'll never find a woman to love me. I think that's sad, especialy when you see some of the ugly dudes (inside and out) picking up chicks left and right because they understand the weird "social rules" and I don't. They know when to look away, when to blink, and I don't.
I feel like I don't belong here.
If he looked like Tom Cruise, I wouldn't like him because he would remind of Tom Cruise, who thinks I have an imaginary condition and it's really tiny volcano aliens controlling my brain. BRAIN CONTROL! Then I think about how he was married to Nicole Kidman and how did that even happen? And how does she feel now that he's completely bonkers? And didn't they adopt children together and why don't we hear anything about those kids now? And I wonder when The Church of Scientology will decide I have asked too many questions. So I don't want somebody who looks like Tom Cruise.
Who do you look like?
I don't know if it's just peer pressure. An adult woman may not want to date somebody quirky because it's unpredictable and then they don't feel that they'd be safe. Women get blamed enough for bizarre situations we find ourselves in because men don't know boundaries so I can imagine that women are somewhat cautious about which men they intentionally spend time with. I know that if I don't feel secure in a situation, I will leave. The problem is that I'm usually the only one who feels weird about a situation.
Is there anybody who you can get to know as a friend but you're both attracted to each other? Then she has time to get to know you and get past all the quirkiness. She learns that you're okay. Then she's still attracted to you so she'd still want to take it to the next level instead of leaving it as friends.
