AinsleyHarte wrote:
I quit shaving about three years ago, and it was the best thing I have ever done for myself. After about a year of being terrified of potential ridicule, I decided that women that feel obligated to shave to conform to beauty standards need a reality check; there is nothing more beautiful to me than a woman that defies this malarky about how we must stay clean-shaven and flawless. The US is so brainwashed by the media that it sickens me.
Shaving causes me great anxiety, overwhelms my senses, is time-consuming, messy, a waste of the little money I have, and far too much of a sensory annoyance for me to deal with (I hate the feeling of stubble - mine or anyone else's.) Why would I do something that causes me such great discomfort simply because a society that all ready rejects me says I have to?
No thank you.
Good for you
(totally meant in a non-ironic way). Those are pretty much the same reasons I stopped shaving my face as a man. I realise it's very different and that a man with a beard is a less unusual thing to most people than a woman with hairy legs. Overall women have it way tougher in this regard but you
do have
one advantage in that you can simply cover up the hairy bits if you can't be bothered with people's narrow minded reactions at a given point. If I attempt to cover my beard people are likely to think I'm an armed robber :p
I think this is one of life's great "f**kwit-o-meters" - if somebody thinks less of you/me based on the fact that we don't wish to remove hair which grows naturally on our body (whether that be legs, lady bits or face) then they are probably hiding various other nasty little prejudices and I would rather avoid them. I've slept with an "au naturelle" woman and wasn't especially phased by it. Honestly I would *prefer* that a woman shaves her lady bits but it wouldn't be a deal-breaker if she didn't and I am more than willing to do the exact same thing in kind if I am in a relationship and my lady wants me to do so (the beard is non-negotiable
).