WHERE have all the Adults gone???

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Sometimes it seems that only depicting the most extreme things happening to the most innocent and vulnerable little creatures moves anyone to care these days. Otherwise, it's much more exciting to watch tarantulas crawl on someone's face to see if they get scared. After all, if you're going to part with your money, don't you need to be maximally entertained first? And we all know that, yes, anomy, money is a factor, for sure. Without it, how will all the services and research get paid for?

To go back to the question what adult services would I like to see, for adults with AS / ASD I would like, in no particular order:

1) Social skills training for adults

2) More specific life management skills training, when I have to do several things at once I often feel a bit overwhelmed, what strategies can help with this?

3) More research on the effect of late diagnosis on adults, including what coping skills / adaptations have they developed before diagnosis and how has this helped / not helped

4) On a purely selfish basis, as a woman, I'd like to see more research in general into identifying and understanding how autism presents in women and girls.

5) Better and more effective methods for adult diagnosis, especially for women where it seems weaker at the moment

6) Ability to access counselling / therapy with people specifically trained in needs of those who have been late diagnosed with AS / ASD

7) Support systems to offer specific assistance to those who are late diagnosed to come to terms with diagnosis if needed, information, resources etc

8) Specific training so some people with AS can train to be paid mentors to others, WP is great but sometimes I'd like to check in with a living breathing person not just words on a screen

9) Better information and support for parents with AS

10) Help, advice, maybe training, in how to explain and express emotions to others, I feel emotions intensely but find them very difficult to talk about it and express them to others

11) Self-Advocacy and assertiveness training for those with AS

12) Specific support for adults who have experienced a prolonged period of bullying in their lives, whether as adults or children

Give me time and I could think of more I'm sure....

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As per your above list.

All of those things are accessible here, but only through clinical psychologists who specialize in AS in one on one individual sessions. There has been no attempt here to create programs on a wider basis that would be accessible to the adult autistic community.

Whether that's because they make more money that way, no advocacy groups focus on adults or they see no need for it, who knows?

To answer the question though:

Most of us are at home and living off the fat of kings (disability pension) or our parents/family.

Most of us are too caught up in our interests to bother posting on a forum that's not about our interest (I'm a rare one there, like you, you, you, you, and you, plus all of you).

You're one of the lucky ones if you can work (also lucky if your interest is a subject that you can study).

Based on comments in the ASL and Mutism in Meltdowns / Shutdowns? thread, I now would like to ask: Would anyone like to see ASL taught as a service to adults on the spectrum?