Autistic Stereotypes You're Sick Of Hearing?

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07 Apr 2018, 5:58 pm

It's factually incorrect that people with AS/Aspergers lack empathy - they just
don't tend to know how to show it and usually struggle to put themselves in
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08 Apr 2018, 3:18 am

agwhanooo wrote:
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That autistic women always have a lot easier lives than autistic men. Yes, some of us might have easier lives than some men, but I'm sure some men have it easier than some women, too.

Fortunately, this forum is the only place I've heard this stereotype in, but it really is annoying... I stopped using the Love and Dating -section partly because of it.


If you were referring to me at all, I am truly sorry if anything I in particular said upset you. I don't mean to perpetuate that stereotype; it just happens to be the one I, in my subjective experience, have encountered. I'm fully aware that apprearances can be deceptive, and that something being (seemingly) comparitively easier doesn't mean it's easy.


Actually no, I don't really even know who you are... I think I've seen your name come up a few times lately, but can't even say in which topic that was.



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08 Apr 2018, 6:45 am

Fireblossom wrote:
That autistic women always have a lot easier lives than autistic men. Yes, some of us might have easier lives than some men, but I'm sure some men have it easier than some women, too.

Fortunately, this forum is the only place I've heard this stereotype in, but it really is annoying... I stopped using the Love and Dating -section partly because of it.
Oh gad yes, I am fed up with that one!


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09 Apr 2018, 12:06 pm

Fireblossom wrote:
agwhanooo wrote:
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That autistic women always have a lot easier lives than autistic men. Yes, some of us might have easier lives than some men, but I'm sure some men have it easier than some women, too.

Fortunately, this forum is the only place I've heard this stereotype in, but it really is annoying... I stopped using the Love and Dating -section partly because of it.


If you were referring to me at all, I am truly sorry if anything I in particular said upset you. I don't mean to perpetuate that stereotype; it just happens to be the one I, in my subjective experience, have encountered. I'm fully aware that apprearances can be deceptive, and that something being (seemingly) comparitively easier doesn't mean it's easy.


Actually no, I don't really even know who you are... I think I've seen your name come up a few times lately, but can't even say in which topic that was.


Ah, nevermind then. :mrgreen:

I agree with you, by the way. Not all females on the spectrum do have it easy, or even easier. The stereotype that all males are a certain way and all females are a certain way is just hooey.



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16 Apr 2018, 10:17 pm

It seems to me that many people, both NT and on the spectrum, think only people with "mild" autism like myself don't want a cure.

But I can't comprehend why any parent, no matter what their child's level of autism, would think just because some quack told them so that using a bleach enema would cure the kid of the parasites causing their "disease". :roll:



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17 Apr 2018, 2:31 am

lostonearth35 wrote:
It seems to me that many people, both NT and on the spectrum, think only people with "mild" autism like myself don't want a cure.

But I can't comprehend why any parent, no matter what their child's level of autism, would think just because some quack told them so that using a bleach enema would cure the kid of the parasites causing their "disease". :roll:

It is more than a “disease” to these parents. It is more like some poison working as a doppelgänger kidnaped thier kid and they need to rescue thier nice cute normal child by any means necessary.


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17 Apr 2018, 6:40 am

That all Aspies are incapable of lying. Some Aspies actually believe this stereotype.


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29 Apr 2018, 2:32 am

That we're necessarily good at maths.


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29 Apr 2018, 8:02 am

Let's band together. Truth. We all in an NT world.

ASD women miss the part where we are supposed to change our voice tone and our body language when men are nearby.



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29 Apr 2018, 10:36 am

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ASD women miss the part where we are supposed to change our voice tone and our body language when men are nearby.


Wait, that's a thing? I thought that this was a "rule" only around the man one is interested in, not all men.



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29 Apr 2018, 1:25 pm

I'd be lying if I said if I never lied, I'm just not good at it. Plus I was taught that lying is wrong no matter what, and doing it to avoid trouble will soon get you into even more trouble, and trust is something you can't just get back once it's gone. Of course, that rule would be temporarily forgotten if someone told me not to tell anyone that they were being molested or on drugs or whatever. :)

And I've posted on the "Post a blatant lie" forum lots of times because it's just for fun, and I like to make up a crazy whopper that no one but a four-year-old would possibly believe. That's what they mean by "blatant". :)



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29 Apr 2018, 1:30 pm

Fireblossom wrote:
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ASD women miss the part where we are supposed to change our voice tone and our body language when men are nearby.


Wait, that's a thing? I thought that this was a "rule" only around the man one is interested in, not all men.


Yeah. News to me too!

I guess HistoryGal just let the cat out of the bag for the whole female half of the human race...your centuries old secret has now been exposed! :lol:



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29 Apr 2018, 3:07 pm

"So, your like rain man?" or, better yet(This is an actual response I got from someone I know when I told them I have Aspergers): "whats 10,000 times pi?"


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29 Apr 2018, 3:21 pm

Come on, don't be sense. You know darn well that women higher their voice pitch for the benefit of men without having to think about it. It doesn't have to be a man they are interested in. Women still do this.



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29 Apr 2018, 3:38 pm

I an sick of hearing, "You can't be Autistic, you must be Asperger's." First of all, the grammar Nazi in me gets angry because the correct verb is have, not be. If you want to use the verb "be" in that sentence, then you must say Aspergian, not Asperger's. Secondly, I get So angry because whenever I am told this by people, it is usually in the same breath as, "You are not Autistic because I can't see it." Well if you've only known me for the duration of that particular conversation, of course you are not going to see it. I hate the stereotype that there is such a thing as an Aspie who has no real struggles at all. Basically some people think that you can be an Aspie and your only struggles are that you have a little shyness or slight social awkwardness. This really makes me angry.


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29 Apr 2018, 4:31 pm

I hate the way people think that just because you have ASD it means you are unable to read facial expressions or feel empathy. Even others on the spectrum think this too. Not everybody on the spectrum is blind to emotions and expressions of others. It makes me mad when people doubt me when I say how well I can read facial expressions, tone of voice and body language.


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