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04 Jun 2016, 5:47 pm

You last sentence describes some of the stronger aspects of me too, Skilpadde.



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04 Jun 2016, 6:20 pm

ZombieBrideXD wrote:
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I never really felt that. I saw my my diagnoses as an explanation but not for my personality traits but actually my impairments and explanation for things I wasn't aware of or didn't understand. Like why making friends was such a hard thing, why did people keep ostracizing me, why can't I learn like the other kids, why does my dad keep telling me to look people in the eye. Why can't I remember things immediately after people tell Me things. It was never a matter of personality. Some things were additional like so that's why i have such a good photographic memory, so that's why I feel bad for inanimate objects.

Why do you focus so much on your impairments? You may have some social difficulties, but it's just because everybody's different. I'm glad you mentioned your photographic memory. That shows your autism also explains you have a great ability, a gift, that not many people have.
I think I have some kind of photographic memory, too. When I study for an exam, I take like photographs of the pages in my brain, and then, in the exam, it's almost as if I were cheating, because it's as if I could see the pages of the book and see some of the things that were written, where in the page they were written, etc. Is this a normal thing?.


Because autism largely affects me in a negative way. I can acknowledge the positives but the bad outway the good. Photographic memory is nice but I lack the ability to remember spoken words clearly, even 5 seconds after being told something. I have an intense focus but it's too intense and people get mad at me for neglecting important tasks because I was too focused in another topic. It's very frustrating.

I don't know a whole lot about photographic member, mine isn't perfect, like I can see a page in a book but the words are blurry and I can't read them. My photographic memory works best with remembering movies and episodes, I watched deadpool a total of 3 times and I can replay the entire movie in my head, I can't remember the script unfortunately but still mildly impresive
From reading several of your posts, I am seeing that you are visually very strong but have trouble with language, speaking, reading etc. Do you find that it is difficult for you to read and comprehend what is written here at WP sometimes? Like does it take you a while to read and understand the posts? Would it be easier for you if written things came with illustrations to help you process what the written text is saying? I will often form mental images like movies or photographs in my mind when I read or hear something. Often times, if I cannot make a mental photo of the thing, I can't understand it, it makes no sense to me. Do you find that this is the same with you?



Yes, I cannot read the longer paragraphs or even posts with multiple paragraphs. I usually have to visually process certain things, I misread things frequently and reply and only realize after reading other people's replies that I didn't understand the OP. I also have difficulty spelling and forming a sentence. It would definitely be easier if there were illustrations or pictures with it.
That is very good to know. Definitely let us know if we can do anything to make it easier for you to understand some of the posts if you have trouble. I think it would be amazing if there was a way to add illustrations to these forum posts to accompany the writings.


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04 Jun 2016, 7:59 pm

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The name thing is too cute! I didn't have the possibility of thinking that, because my best friend at school had the same as me, and she wasn't picked on at all.


I was the only one with the name Beth at my school. But that was pretty irrational of me to think that because there was a boy in my school named Christopher and he also was different, more different than me and he was also treated different and picked on. But yet there were other Chris's in my school and they were fine and normal and didn't get picked on. But seriously if I had changed my name and decided to go by Betsy or Liz or Lizzie, same difference. Besides I did have a different name in 3rd grade and I was still different. Kids didn't start liking me all of a sudden.


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04 Jun 2016, 8:08 pm

It's impossible to separate what part of your personality is the result of AS or not, but what can be said is there is as much diversity in personalities with AS as in the general population.


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04 Jun 2016, 9:14 pm

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I am sorry Lisa, I must have not done the quotes right. I meant that post asking about being visually strong to be for Zombie Bride. But I was glad to read your response. :D

Oh, sorry! I thought it was a general question! But thanks for correcting me! I like being corrected if necessary (unlike neurotypicals) :P


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05 Jun 2016, 8:14 am

lisa_simpson wrote:
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I am sorry Lisa, I must have not done the quotes right. I meant that post asking about being visually strong to be for Zombie Bride. But I was glad to read your response. :D

Oh, sorry! I thought it was a general question! But thanks for correcting me! I like being corrected if necessary (unlike neurotypicals) :P
It's all good! :D


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05 Jun 2016, 2:56 pm

Well,
actually like many replies here before I did have not have a clear identity,I just considered myself a kid going through school,many of my traits I thought were just me,the odd one out.Since realizing many criteria for aspergers and I most probably am a individual with said condition so it has become part of my identity,my being,nothing changed except the why I am this way.
I'm not currently seeking diagnosis since it doesn't matter to me since I'm doing well in my daily life and don't want to be treated differently.
(Off the top of my head)
I have negatives and I have positives:
Negatives:
-Socially challenged
-Sensitivity of sight
-Anxious almost all the time in certain conditions.
-Motor skills,gotten much better 'cause of therapy,leave much to be desired.
-Sarcasm,my nemesis.
-Difficulty dealing with change
-Focus is hard to come by unless interested in subject.
-Difficulty expressing one self verbally

Positives:
-Good memory
-Analytical Thinking
-Sensitive to Sound(Explained below)
-Interests which further me to learn more than any "normal" human being.("normal" equalling the illusion of typical or normal)




There is a lot more but it's hard to list them all,since I'm not sure on how to put the rest into words.
The reason I list sensitive to sounds as a positive it's because I can listen so much more as a whole,experience some things more vividly, at the cost of being overwhelmed from time to time.I deal with being overwhelmed by utilizing headphones and being solitary and away from loud noises.
(This took longer than expected to write)


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