Cooking is one of the areas in which my executive functioning problems come into play. I have trouble with the level of uncertainty involved in cooking most things. Example: When I'm helping my mom cook dinner, and she asks me to check to see if something in the oven is done, this is the conversation repeated verbatim:
"How do I know if they're done?"
"They'll be brown."
"But they started out brown."
"They'll be browner."
"How brown?"
"...Well, if they're firm, they're done."
"How firm?"
"Can you bend them easily?"
"How easily?"
And then my mom will just check them herself (this is why I'm delegated to chopping and washing exclusively). If the steps involved are black and white (cereal, sandwiches, etc.) then I'm fine, but if it's more complex I'm pretty much useless. I don't know how to function if I'm expected to make judgments based on unclear criteria. I just can't proceed if I'm uncertain about how to do something, and I can't figure it out on my own without very clear-cut rules.
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