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24 Nov 2023, 1:25 pm

Yes, I have an interest I can't share with others so I won't :mrgreen:


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24 Nov 2023, 6:42 pm

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I love to watch nail fungus videos, especially podiatrist videos.


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24 Nov 2023, 8:52 pm

Conspiracy theories are my society inappropriate special interest.



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26 Nov 2023, 8:21 am

funeralxempire wrote:
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Don't shoot me for saying this, but I enjoy watching Hitler Rant parodies on YouTube.


Hitler in his bunker throwing a fit with different translations? :lol:


Those ones.


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26 Nov 2023, 2:42 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
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Don't shoot me for saying this, but I enjoy watching Hitler Rant parodies on YouTube.


Hitler in his bunker throwing a fit with different translations? :lol:


Those ones.


I'm really tempted to make a Hitler reacts to the Nordiques moving video. It's only a few decades late. :lol:


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28 Nov 2023, 9:11 pm

I have something I'm stuck on right now that I can't share with anyone, but it's not anything dark. There was this cassette tape I had as a kid. It was geared for kids, but it wasn't babyish, it was more funny, and also the tunes were based on folk songs so it had good music. It's on YouTube, and I play it sometimes, but there's no way on this big old ball-shaped planet that I would let people know what I was playing.



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29 Nov 2023, 9:53 am

TikvaBall wrote:
I have something I'm stuck on right now that I can't share with anyone, but it's not anything dark. There was this cassette tape I had as a kid. It was geared for kids, but it wasn't babyish, it was more funny, and also the tunes were based on folk songs so it had good music. It's on YouTube, and I play it sometimes, but there's no way on this big old ball-shaped planet that I would let people know what I was playing.

On the embarrassment thing, I don't think I have any special interests for which I internalise any embarrassment. To my mind, there's nothing very harmful about any of them except maybe waste of time and neglect of my health that can arise from pursuing them, and even those are arguable. I keep pretty quiet about some of my special interests when I'm in the presence of narrow-minded people who have certain values such as looking down on those who are a bit different to the norm, but my preferred solution to that is to keep such people out of my life. My close friends are more tolerant, which is one reason why they're my close friends. I've always accepted myself for who I am, as long as I don't hurt anybody. So if I want to binge-watch Bagpuss, I wouldn't hide the fact from my close friends, but I wouldn't normally tell anybody else. OTOH I wouldn't expect anybody to want to binge-watch it with me.



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13 Jul 2024, 12:41 am

Is having an interest in Hitler wrong?


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13 Jul 2024, 1:18 am

Raleigh wrote:
Is having an interest in Hitler wrong?
He's a historical figure who is very important to learn about, given that what he did should never be repeated, so no.

My own interests tend to be very frivolous, so embarrassing in that sense.



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13 Jul 2024, 2:58 pm

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She's never expressed any intrest anyway but if she did I probably wouldn't let her becuase she'd correct me about any grammar or spelling mistake instead of the story itself. This isn't a school assignment. If people bully me for my poor grammar or not making a paragraph "correctly", I think that says more about them than it does me. I'm writing this story for fun, not for someone with a fetish for perfect grammar.


Criticizing someone's poor spelling and grammar is bullying? Strange take for someone with autism, a condition that frequently results in attention to detail to the point of being pedantic and nitpicky.

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I uh...have sexual fantasies about fictional characters...


That's probably not uncommon.

If it's a problem probably depends in a large part on the character. Sexually fantasizing about Tony Stark is very different from sexually fantasizing about Bugs Bunny, even though they're both fictional characters.

I think if you fantasize about a fictional character or an impossible scenario it's probably a good idea to psychoanalyze yourself a bit. Try to determine what it is about the character or scenario that's turning you on. There is probably some useful realization within the fantasy.

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i'm not sure if it is a special interest. but i do know a lot about serial killers, mass shooters and terrorists.

now, i'm a very calm man, not a finger i would lay on a butterfly. i don't know why but i find these cases very interesting.


I have a close friend (never diagnosed with anything, but I wouldn't be surprised if she's slightly iADHD) who is a very sweet woman and not violent, but she's long been fascinated by serial killers and the like. She pursued a career in the criminal justice field as a result. She doesn't hide it, but she also doesn't discuss the (literally) gory details with most people.

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I still am an "interested skeptic" in things like Bigfoot. But with adults its not really cool. If I hang with friends they dont wanna watch "Finding Bigfoot" on Animal channel.


Interesting skeptic is similar way I'd describe my interest in cryptozoology and UFOs. I was very interested as a child, but as an adult I've come to understand how much fakery and urban legend and flimsy evidence surround the topics, obscuring any truth that might be within. Don't get me started on shows like "Ancient Aliens" or "Curse of Oak Island."

However, when someone I already had strong feelings for admitted to their childhood dream of going to Loch Ness to look for Nessie, it was very difficult to restrain myself as I had never told her it was also a childhood dream of mine. (Unfortunately, she had already repeatedly rejected my romantic interest in her.)


So is it creepy for me to be attracted to and have uncontrollable thoughts about Elmer...?


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13 Jul 2024, 4:56 pm

GreenVelvetWorm wrote:
Does anyone have any special interests/hyperfixations that you can't share with other people because it's embarrassing or people wouldn't understand it?
I've had some interests I shouldn't talk about much outside of certain Adult sites :wink:

Some very liberal political things I couldn't talk to people offline about when I lived with my parents because it was a hard-core conservative area. My parents are liberal but not to the extent I am but we would probably vote the same.

Some various psychology/psychiatry things I've researched & some rare/disturbing medical issues.
Some dangerous delusional fantasies I've had a long time ago.

Also certain people would be weirded out by my knife/blade collection along with some other weapons like brass-knuckles, & non-weapon things like crystal skulls :skull: :twisted:


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