Outrageous asperger myths and stereotypes

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Joe90
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08 May 2012, 5:14 am

That ''all Aspies are always doing something odd in public''.


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08 May 2012, 10:13 am

Childlike, immature, unmotivated, creepers, hypersensitive, overdramatic, must have had a spiked drink, been in some terrible accident, parents were druggies or commited incest

The few people I regularly interact with have a more enlightened understanding, 1 aspie mom spotted me accurately from across a room. The select people I've 'outed' myself to have been supportive without much awkwardness I can read, and the IDing of my barriers to normal expression has been a relief to the closest ones

My mom can act like a curebie at times (I don't eat the right foods and broadcasting 'lfa' moments)
but will usually mention aspies from the TV like James on 'Idol" and the "Parenthood" kid.



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08 May 2012, 11:09 am

That we aren't really human....we're aliens.
(Yes, I have seen that one).

Then your teacher says:
Well, I didn't notice anything abnormal.....

Or another teacher:
Are you sure it's not just anxiety? Cause I wouldn't want you to have a label....

Sigh.



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08 May 2012, 11:19 am

zoey wrote:
Zinia wrote:
Someone told me once that AS people "have no empathy." I don't think that's true. It seems like a lot of people on here have empathy. It's not like psychopathy.


ugh I hate this one!! ! I'm EXTREMELY empathic, to the point that someone I don't even know can be upset and I'm in tears without even knowing why! However, I don't know how to express SYMPATHY in a way that would be considered "appropriate".


I know--I'm actually the person who stops and picks up every bug I see on the sidewalk, to move them to the other side so they don't get stepped on. I stop when I see a dead possum on the side of the road, to check to see if it has living babies in it's pouch because I would be racked with guilt of the babies died because I didn't check. Yet sometimes, I don't feel the need to cry at funerals--or know what to say to someone who is crying, but it's not because I don't have empathy. I don't really know if I have AS though, but still--I know I have empathy and a lot of symptoms of mild AS.



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08 May 2012, 11:19 am

Autistic people are more logical than everyone else. This one seems to be perpetuated by autistic people themselves. Sure you are... :roll: