For me garyww, I didn't want to use a graphic avatar, so I used a picture of me when I was around 10 or 11 years old---even though I am 44 years old. I use a youth picture of myself because I often look back on my life now (knowing now of my autism) and find myself fascinated with my upbringing concerning my issues. My recent diagnosis makes it so clear why I was perceived as odd and eccentric by those in my school, and also by my family. I can remember when that picture was taken of me. I was standing next to a vase of roses Dad had bought for Mom on their anniversary. I remember liking my hair long, but Mom wanted me to get it cut. So I let her get me an appointment to get it cut. Then, when I became a teenager, I let it grow long again. My use of that picture also relates to the fact that even though I am now middle aged, I still feel like a child inside sometimes. I still like to play with my narrow interests---roller coasters, trains, circus models, magic tricks, etc. And, I was so...so...innocent when that picture was taken.