What "social rule" do you dislike the most?

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there is much more i can say, but my post is too long now and i know it will not be read anyway.

I hate it when every person greets me. The worst is when there's a gathering at my place or that of another and everyone says, "Hello. How are you?" I always have to be 'good' or 'fine', just like them. Then they ask me how my family is and how school is. Why can't we have a discussion about something emotionless rather than catching up on each other's news. It's predictable and it's my least favorite routine. I'd rather kill myself than feel an emotion about violence. This is why I have used drugs to get chronic depersonalization. I'm empty (emotionally) and safe (feeling) but empty makes me suicidal but I take care of that by doing research on psychopaths and by stealing things to sell on the black market to fund certain charities.

I fund charities to help protect people against psychopaths. My one friend is a psychopath and I have been harming him to keep myself independent. I can do everything for myself and I don't need the help of others. Someone says I'm f**** up but what the actual reason (reality) is is damage to the frontal lobe and mirror neurons, resulting in certain personality traits that people consider to constitute AS.

They want me to be more like they are and I want to be silent and morose. I have never been good at the same stuff they are. I notice there is only one type of person who is good at it and the others are more like me. I fit in better with minorities.

I actually refuse to call it "swearing", because it has a religious reference to it...same with 'cursing/cussing" I just refer to it as "profanitY", because while it does have a religious reference, ti's not one that makes it sound bad, as profanity ISN'T bad.

In fact, the entire idea of it being bad is based on very hypocritical religious ideas, and those ideas constantly conflict with each other. This was apparently shown on Penn & Teller's "Bull$#!+", and some woman said "just say 'holy cow'"...the problem with that is cow is sacred in some other company..but she had no problem using THAT in vain, because it wasn't sacred in HERS. It's total hypocracy.

But most people are very hypocritical.

Why do you think most parents won't properly teach their kids about drugs, drinking, smoking, etc? Because they did it too, and the kids won't care, since the parents turned out fine. Unless you DON'T DO IT yourself when you're younger, you have nothing to tell your kids. Unfortunately, that doesn't happen too much when most people are so pragmatic...

Glad to see so many others are mentioning the "How are you? Fine, and you?" social paradigm. It seems so unnecessary, and I feel embarrassed when I realize I've answered the question without the expected reciprocation.

It's also unpleasant to be in social situations where there's not a specific purpose. It's hard to tell what people are getting out of the situation unless there's an actual exchange of ideas and information, yet people carry on happily even when there's nothing particularly noteworthy being discussed.

And eye contact, also excruciating.

No flatulence in public. I mean, come on.