ConceptuallyCurious wrote:
Hm, my impression was that Hermione, especially in the later books, is quite tactful and socially able.
I have wondered about Luna Lovegood, though. She does possess bizarre beliefs, but she's been brought up to believe they're true so it may not be something that she's generating herself. These beliefs could be considered a special interest and she appears oblivious to the fact that others aren't interested in what she has to say. (Indeed, JKR says after the end of the books Luna discovered many creatures but that she eventually came to terms with Crumpled Horned Snorkacks not existing - suggesting that evidence does sway her, rather than delusional thinking.)
She also appears unaware of social norms regarding honesty - many times, Harry/the narrator voice comments on her "knack for embarrassing honesty". She's also tends not to engage in conversations that aren't related to her special interest (magical animals)
Although in some instances, Luna is shown as able to comfort people overall she doesn't seem to have many or any friends for much of the series. Indeed, in her 5th year she comments that the DA was almost like having friends.
Yep, well summarized.
I knew a girl in high school who was eerily like Luna. Given what I know now, I think this girl was HFA, not Asperger's. There is also a lab tech at my doctor's office. She takes blood and handles the patient side of the exchange (I am sure she does some of the lab work too though) who I think overtly displays the "active but odd" stereotype. She is overly polite and helpful to the point that if you didn't know she was missing cues and misreading expressions, you'd think she was passive aggressive or rude. She's been working there for a few years. Very scattered and hyperkinetic too. She seems too like a bumblebee to look at you directly. Often you have to repeat your name I think because she has trouble understanding what someone says because she depends on being able to anticipate what they will say so she can recognize the words and convert them to meanings and then to typing or writing or repeating it back. Names are random and odd and can be harder to process in an overload situation. She has never said she has this problem to me; this is just my impression, because I've had episodes of this. I just give her my ID right off because I know she'll end up having to ask for it to see the name.
And I agree, Hermione was extremely socially adept for her age if she had ASD. I don't think an ASD girl could be that adept in that age category. Maybe as she got into her 30s if she was mild but not as a teenager/college student. This is just personal opinion.
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RDOS Aspie Score: 145 or 144/200 Aspie, 68 or 57/200 NT
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