Thank you millie and crassus :) Anywhere else, provoking thought is what I'm hated for.
Sallamandrina, that's my own experience with forums too. I think group participation and survival in a group must be the most difficult thing for an Aspie, at least one like me... The nonverbal interplay of a specific group's pecking order is hell for me to understand. We're fortunate it's not like that on WP.
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