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17 Jun 2013, 12:05 pm

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He touched you because he was wondering if the drugs he prescribed for you were giving you tremors. Some drugs can cause permanent trembling.

You should be trying to figure out why you feel so strongly about him, and not imagine that he is feeling deeply about you... in my opinion. Imagine all the time you have spent trying to "figure out" why he touched you. How much conversation you have generated out that incident that took seconds. He is a doctor. He has prescribed medicine for you, and he has ten minutes twice a month to figure out how it is working for you. What is the name of the medicine he has prescribed for you?

I read back through this thread and I'm 100% sure that he has touched you just to see if you are suffering from tremors caused by the meds.

he prescribed
zenoxa
itelaam
ilopride
duvanta

ok maybe its to check the tremors

what can i say

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17 Jun 2013, 12:30 pm

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Not seeing won't make these feelings that you have for him disappear.

Maybe not initially, but in the end yes. And at least it means she wouldn't be able to act on them, or make a fool of herself, or allow herself into a situation with him that he might take advantage of if he tends that way.

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17 Jun 2013, 1:37 pm

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Erm, I'm confused, aren't you married? If not, sorry I have mixed you up with someone else.

It would be unethical for any relationship between doctor and patient, so if you are attracted, and he feels the same (which you would have to be sure of) you would need to see a different doctor professionally to pursue a relationship with this one. Do you also know if he is single or not? Be sure before you do anything.

It is absolutely unethical to be in a relationship with a current or former client. The psychiatrist could end up with serious legal consequences. To me there really is no "before you do anything". This is just a no.

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17 Jun 2013, 2:09 pm

namaste wrote:

zenoxa
itelaam
ilopride
duvanta

ok maybe its to check the tremors

what can i say

"Symptoms of a Generic Duvanta 20 mg overdose may include nausea, vomiting, tremor, agitation, ... Ocurrence of side effects Generic Duvanta 20 mg are rare..."

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17 Jun 2013, 6:55 pm

Just because it is weird does not mean that it is unethical.

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18 Jun 2013, 10:51 am

Fnord wrote:

namaste wrote:

1. He may be deliberately manipulating you into a relationship; and for his sole benefit, not yours.

is that even possible?

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18 Jun 2013, 11:27 am

androbot2084 wrote:

Just because it is weird does not mean that it is unethical.

u sound so much like stalk

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18 Jun 2013, 11:50 am

[quote="namaste you want me to tell him that i have fallen in love with him?

If he is any good at all he will be used to it! It happens all the time in therapy and its called transference! Talk to him about it, he should understand

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19 Jun 2013, 11:45 am

ok i am feeling depressed and utterly depressed.
often when i am away for longer time from people who show interest in me
i feel depressed and down.

i never had a caring parent so i need mothering all the time
i crave for love, attention
and since he isn't around me i am in a pit

i have decided to contact another psychiatrist tomorrow
and get my medicines
since the current medicine is not able to help me with the swing.

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19 Jun 2013, 12:44 pm

namaste wrote:

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Sorry you feel like that Namaste, really try talking to the one you have, he may be able to help you with these horrible, empty feelings - It could be worth a try?

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19 Jun 2013, 11:57 pm

namaste wrote:

I think that is unnecessary. I... for one, don't believe he is coming on to you. There's nothing but trouble for him in acting like that with any patient. Plus, he is probably seeing a couple of dozen patients every day, and his goal is to monitor how you are doing on the drugs he has prescribed.

You say very often that since you never got the love you needed as a child, you are now a sucker to any attention that pretty much anyone gives you. I think this is a pretty simple and naive self-diagnosis. But, it would be very therapeutic for you to mention your romantic distress with your doc... he would recognize what it is, and he would have remedies for it. Don't you think that being miserable, depressed, and anxious about your tiny little relationship with a doctor, who has you on four mind altering drugs, needs to be dealt with? Couldn't talking about your feelings with a psychiatrist be a good start?

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21 Jun 2013, 7:06 am

tall-p wrote:

i would be too embrassed to do that

really no guts for that

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21 Jun 2013, 7:09 am

ok i am went to the new doctor yesterday

he gave me a new set of medicines yesterday

i showed him my papers with previous doctors

so this doctor prescribed me other set of medicine
since earlier doctor medicines were not available easily

but new doctor is only MBBS and not MD
plus he wasn't that good in conversation
and boosting my confidence

but i will stick to new doctor
since he stays nearby
and i can take my hubby with me for visits

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