Sora wrote:
I came here after realising the people on here are easy to understand, unlike many other places. I decided to stay on WP for now, because this place has become familiar and comfortable. People share very similar issues and thus the reading is helping me to find and understand the things that I may lack to be considered "normal".
The tricky thing is to notice what makes you different, when you have clue what is considered "typical". Like eye-contact really is important and works for all the people in my class - that was a thing I realised only after reading about it, partly on the boards, here on WP. Although now it has me confused on how much I should look people in the eye and although I seem to do it ok, I hate, hate, hate it. So maybe I can find clues on here also, how to get out of this stupid look-into-eyes business.
I don't know whether I will continue staying here, if my doctor denies the AS diagnosis, as it would send me searching again. I will hopefully know the answer in April! I doubt that I can find another place which is filed with people like you that finally make sense. Most people out there in the world certainly don't make sense at all.
Wrote that one year ago. What changed... (if any)?
I continued to stay. The professional gave out the diagnosis and I can hardly believe this was already one whole year ago.
I think I know a lot about ASDs already, due to research and reading and asking whoever is willing to answer. And, on top of that, I do have a better idea of what is typical. Not the best, but quite decent already. I also realised people here are just as strange as everywhere else, but less so. Still easier to understand.
Too bad I didn't get out of the business of looking people in the eye.
Strange that I didn't wish for much else. I certainly surprise myself here.
For the future, I decided to just stick around. There are many nice and interesting people here. I don't have grand plans, or needs (though some WP addiction plays a role on this for sure).
I just... like staying here? I think that's a superb reason for once.