What NT accepted behaviour flumoxes you the most?

Post Reply New Topic

Sorry. I shouldn’t have bit!

Hate is a rather strong word and quite an exaggeration indeed and I would thank-you for not using it again when referencing a post of mine.

Observations that have revealed truth regarding NT behaviour and yes some females fall into that category as well when juxstaposing mating rituals with a-sexual choices made by myself and other males.

Quite relevant to the aforementioned subject matter so if you disagree then fine but hatred had nothing to do with it.

Their "holier than thou" attitude

How they act like everything is either good or bad

How they act so arrogant and entitled

They talk so much and so loud but they rarely say anything besides:

(Dis) respect
Rude, mean
Help, hurt
Drugs, panhandling, cigarettes, alcohol
What, huh
Cool, good ,
Fortunately, sucks,
May I help you
Are you ok
Do you have a question
How are you doing
You need to (command)
Why (scrutinize)
Most people
Like, want


How they are so dramatic they act like every slightest thing is a catastrophe

How they say you made too much eye contact or the wrong type

How they act like they are constantly in a hurry

How they remark on your appearance, emotions, intelligences, and moral value

How they say "I'm sorry" for things that could not have been their fault by any stretch of the imagination. But when they do or say something wrong, they make it into sympathy, not an apology

Off leash dogs. "She won't bite. She's friendly'




Why are dogs even called "he" and "she" instead of "it"?

They do the slightest thing, and expect you to act like they dragged you out of a burning building

They make comments about what you are eating and how messy you are

They act like they are doing you a favor by asking your nationality

They try to guilt trip you into eating things outside of your diet

Enough of the female-bashing, I've HAD IT with the female bashing!! I'm sick of you males on WP whining and complaining all the time about how horrible women are when there aspie and autistic women like me on this site. It doesn't matter if you're autistic or NT, it's sickening. But it's even more sickening when you use autism as an excuse to hate all women. It's not even just restricted to Loathe and Hating anymore, it's in every other discussion in every forum. It's no wonder most other people on Asperger's and Autism Forum hate WP!! I know I'm going to get banned from WP for this but I can't stand it anymore! You all sound SOOOOOOOOOOO charming with your constant moaning about how EEEEEEEEEEEEEVIL all women are, it's just mind-boggling that you can't get a girlfriend, HA HA!! And NO, it's NOT my time of the month!!



That's it, then. Wrong Planet has gone to the proverbial hounds. It's a complete mess. I should leave it forever, but that would just end up making a lot of you men happy, wouldn't it?

Because they are a living being with a gender and not a thing?

This. It's now the second time it's had to be pointed out on this thread.

Hey, I love women. Don't judge us all by the posts of the few. Just because you see a few haters doesn't mean we all are, there are loads of us on this site and those of us who support women aren't going to be posting about it all the time. It's just haters like to post their complaints more. That didn't mean they're not a minority view. I even think some of the women bashing in here is just pointed at NT women, since they do some things that we don't understand that men aren't usually accountable for. There have also been some posts about men specifically too, like their alpha male BS. In short, women are great, possibly even better than men IMO.

Argh! No. You assume much. Women don't have hoards of men after them. Women are individuals with distinct personalities. Why am I even typing. Just live in your make centric bubble. Don't bother to research. Just assume

Totally agree!

Lack of any sense of objective values, which is the root of every other social ill.

I thoroughly relate with this, and I'm neurotypical! Who thought that all of those layers and accessories were a good idea? I suppose it probably has been passed down for centuries, given that sixteenth and seventeenth century formal wear was so much more complicated than anything we have today.

It's funny how those who condemn the suit and tie as an anachronism refuse to do the same for the traditional dress of non-western cultures.

The suit and tie, along with any other sartorial tradition is of value because it marks oneself out as part of a broader social and cultural milieu, as a serious, professional adult, rather than a child who insists on avoiding anything difficult or uncomfortable. Or at least it did until the 1960s, when the tedious counter cultural movement consignned the suit to the history books as an anachronism.

Yes, a tie serves no concrete utilitarian purpose - nor do computer games, music, junk food, ironing, shaving, washing - or most other things one might like to think of. One cannot establish the rectitude of a cultural value in terms of first principles.

The suit and tie are a value because they place one's existential position in a historical context - they form a connection with a line of ancestors practising a tradition which does back centuries. It is the lack of this sense of temporal continuity which is disastrous for contemporary man, and robs him of his birthright. It is actually difficult for most people - even the older ones - currently alive to realise that until a few generations ago, people acted in conscious awareness of the vast stretches of history that had passed before them and the vast stretches of history that would follow after their death. It wasn't like the current generation where all the earth's resources were considered fair game for everybody currently living - and nobody else. You see the consequences of this all around you.

Can't stand dressing up smart.

It really differs per country so it’s hard to say. In Canada I’d say constant sugar-coating and being passive. Like we’re so obsessed with being polite and kind that we can’t always be honest. So NT’s sugar-coat criticism.

I don't hate women specifically. I think the amount of horrible women out there is comparable to the amount of horrible men. I just think the ways that women tend to be horrible don't make sense. This post was about NT behavior that I find confusing... I find women confusing.

Also I've had several girlfriends; my experience with them is largely why I feel the way I do.

How they laugh loudly about things that are not funny

How they talk so much and so loud, but use extremely limited vocab

How they act impatient about waiting for the bathroom or while driving

How they act like every time you do something they don't like, it must be absolutely wrong. They act like they have never done wrong before

How they act like they have a moral right to get whatever they want to be happy at all times

How they act like you can't express anger without them having the nerve to tell you that "you got mad". Instead of telling you what they did to make you ",mad", they just make a scene.

As if they are perfect and there could not possibly be a reason for you to express any emotion they do not like, around them


How they overgeneralization about situational versus dispositional ("good person")



How they spoil the children

How they act so entitled

"Can you" instead of "will you"

"You need to" instead of "I want you to"




They care too much about $$ and appearance


They see and hear what they want

Janitor thought I was doing drugs when I was eating Twix

He was over ten yards away

At least he could have gotten a better look

How they say "how are you?". But there are five emotions and happy is just one of them