I think of my son's Asperger's as a gift that comes with some very real burdens.
While we certainly want to keep our focus on, and celebrate, the gifts, dealing with the burdens can be the tough part, and it's the tough parts of their lives that people tend to bring into forums, where you've got a great brainstorming resource.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).