Women have the power to ruin your life

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01 Jan 2009, 10:36 am

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Suppose that you and some woman have a discussion or some sort of misunderstanding. Depending on how vicious the woman is, she can call the cops and tell them that you beat her up or tried to rape her. The cops will arrive and promptly arrest you, no questions asked. If you are charming and articulate enough to convince the judge that the woman in question is lying, you might get off with just a tiny little stain on your criminal record; otherwise, your life goes straight to hell, and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.

so yeah, I am more afraid of women than I am of men.

there are very few girls that would do that in australia where i live (accuse you of abuse)........ if they liked you.
very very few.

if they would not want to keep you as a friend they would make trouble for you and tell you to go.
why would they decide that they wanted to accuse you of bad things if they liked you?

the girls you speak of do not like you i think.

and if you are innocent, then you can just sit there in your innocence and do nothing and watch them lie themselves into inescapable corners.

i would choose better girls to hang out with than ones who are so strictly hurt by chronic improvidence, that they have legal things in mind.

there are some extremely beautiful souls in this world that are sitting alone at this minute.

do not waste time chasing randomly cute bodies that may have a mind that is completely incompatible with yours.

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01 Jan 2009, 10:44 am

OMG people think about what some of you are saying.
it sounds almost like you think its OK or acceptable for some men to get the shaft because we get better pay or because some men rape.
think about it, were all individuals regardless of sex and should be judged by our own personal actions and merits not by what the next or last person has done.
I know its hard not to be somewhat judgmental when the other sex tends to repeat things in your lives but come on now lets get real not everyone is the same due to gender.

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01 Jan 2009, 10:57 am

i just see why some girls are not attracted to some men and i identify.
they are correct to not want them.
i also have men wanting me, and they are desperate and they are only starved genitalia.

those yellow toothed men are all slobbering over pristine skin but they can not have mine.

i have scruples.

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01 Jan 2009, 1:18 pm

Not to get all philosophical, but nobody can ruin your lif unless you let them.

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01 Jan 2009, 1:29 pm

Prof_Pretorius wrote:

Not to get all philosophical, but nobody can ruin your lif unless you let them.

Well, they can kill you, or cripple you to the point where you spend years figuring out how to cope. They can turn your entire social support network (e.g. family) against you, if they're smoother than you are, and if you're autistic good luck finding another one. And good luck surviving without one, too.

Most people will not hurt you, and most people who hurt you will not ruin your life, but some people can put quite a dent in it. And whether and how well you can recover from that depends on the outside resources available to you as well as your own inner reserves. Some people don't recover from trauma. That's just how it is.

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01 Jan 2009, 3:43 pm

A complete stranger can physically injure me.
BUT I have to let someone into my life and introduce them to my family for them to turn my family against me.

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01 Jan 2009, 9:04 pm

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One thing I do know, out of the few relationships I been in and the woman starts in verbally assaulting me I find I had much rather be physically assaulted then put up with the emotional abuse, I find females to be much MUCH more abusive then males when it comes to verbal abuse. physical injures can and do often fade but much of the verbal and other abuse men have to endure by females can and does last a lifetime, women are much better at it and seem to enjoy it more with seemingly little to no remorse.

sounds like something I could have written.

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02 Jan 2009, 1:29 pm

Prof_Pretorius wrote:

A complete stranger can physically injure me.
BUT I have to let someone into my life and introduce them to my family for them to turn my family against me.

Unfortunately, sometimes they're already in the family (e.g. abusive parent).

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05 Jan 2009, 1:37 am

b9 wrote:

i have scruples.

Is that contagious?

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05 Jan 2009, 7:12 am

Shadow50 wrote:

b9 wrote:

i have scruples.

Is that contagious?

i do not think so. i never caught them from anyone.

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05 Jan 2009, 10:22 am

Anemone wrote:

Prof_Pretorius wrote:

A complete stranger can physically injure me.
BUT I have to let someone into my life and introduce them to my family for them to turn my family against me.

Unfortunately, sometimes they're already in the family (e.g. abusive parent).

That's true, and I can understand that such a person could side with an abuser against someone in their own family. I've seen families torn apart over such things.

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