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08 Mar 2010, 9:24 pm

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No I see them as the starspawn of Cuthulhu


aawww, I was just going to say that! :lol:

Do NTs come with a downloadable instruction manual? :idea:
Oh wait, they lost the manual long ago. Drat.


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08 Mar 2010, 9:41 pm

What a load of crap
Boy not only do I have to live without the joy NTs supposedly get with being around other people I have to intellecually act (like being in a play hoping to get all my lines right so I don't offend anyone) Yeah maybe it does not come naturaly, but I put a great amount of efford into saying what I think I should I put people on a pedistle it was the way I was taught to give them more respect than they ussally deserve
I wish I only saw people as just people.



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18 Mar 2010, 1:16 pm

LMAO!! !! !! !! !


Noisy skin bags?!?!?!?!?!?

LOL!! !



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18 Mar 2010, 4:24 pm

Wow, what a bunch of bigoted crap. Not treating people as mere "things" is a major aspect of my ethical thinking.


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18 Mar 2010, 4:29 pm

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gina-ghettoprincess wrote:
Beyond crap.

In a science textbook at my school, it says that in an autistic mind, it's a just a blur of sounds and events and we can't function in society at all. I was going to complain to the teacher, but, well, it was in class and I wasn't actually supposed to have been reading that page.


You are correct in that! The worse part, 'they' believe it. And even worse...many who are the neuro/psych profession read that exact same stuff, and they believe it. Then treat given Autist accordingly. Which is why it doesn't work. I'm a scientist, not a voodoo priestess.

AmberEyes: As always, cogently written as very true. I love animals as well.
raisedbyignorance: I actually do agree....sad, but true. I've met them and they are painfully hurtful beings. So ignorant they don't even know they're ignorant. Cannot reason their way out of a paper bag (sorry for the euphamism, I don't usually use those terms).
On a left-wing message board I frequent (Democratic Underground) there is a gang of Curebie posters that treat us Aspies as if we were sociopathic monsters because we "have no empathy" (which is why the misleading way autism researchers use the term "Empathy" is so dangerous).


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18 Mar 2010, 5:02 pm

I checked Wikipedia, and it turns out I feel neither sympathy nor empathy.
Because sympathy is like a lesser form of empathy, like when people are gurgling over baby pictures together, while empathy is when someone literally feels what the other person is feeling (although, this is always a stab in the absolute dark, and any one that has success has merely guessed right).
I view people as different from every other thing, and I see no two objects as the same (how is that possible) but I do not take the antisocial tendency of thinking they are there for my personal pleasure, although I may think this in a romantic perspective (if such a scene were to ever occur, I doubt it) because of being oblivious to others emotions unless they state they feel those particular emotions or if they slam things, which angers me and that is useful because that makes me think the other person is angry too because I am and they usually are (unless they have some kind of disorder that somehow makes their muscles have a sudden growth spurt and they have not adjusted yet).
I do view them as living things, because they move and grow and die if they do not eat.
They are not objects, but if I were to make a computer simulation of my life they would be objects.
And I think that kind of is what my life is like.
I am a parody of myself in a simulation of my life.



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18 Mar 2010, 5:17 pm

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On a left-wing message board I frequent (Democratic Underground) there is a gang of Curebie posters that treat us Aspies as if we were sociopathic monsters because we "have no empathy"


What!! !! !

Just wait until their harebrained overpopulated, socioeconomic system breaks down and we are trying objectively to stop them from starving to death or mass murdering each on their next cull cycle. Bet what's left of the bald rock apes won't be coming out that kind of cr*p , so loudly, then .



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18 Mar 2010, 5:54 pm

No I see them as lions. :roll:

SCordeliaB wrote:
LMAO!! !! !! !! !


Noisy skin bags?!?!?!?!?!?

LOL!! !


This just reminded me of a documentary I watched in psychology in November when we were studying Baren-Cohen. It said that autists see people as skin bags because they don't have adequate theory-of-minds, then they showed this creepy, disturbing 3D face with no features and the camera zooms in it's gaping hole for a mouth then there's another image where a woman is smiling like a psycho.
Scary s**t.


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18 Mar 2010, 7:16 pm

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People with autism suffer from a defect of the mind where they cannot perceive other humans or animals alike as real, living, breathing people and pets. They view us as just other objects in this world that do unexpected things and make unexpected noises that they cannot calculate.

The physiologist Alison Gopnik explains what it would be like to have autism.

“This is what it is like to sit around a dinner table. At the top of my field of vision is a blurry edge of my nose, in front are waving hands…. Around me bags of skin are draped over chairs and stuffed into pieces of cloth, they shift and protrude in unexpected ways…. two dark spots at the top of them swivel relentlessly back and forth. A hole beneath that spot fills with food and from it comes a scream of noises. Imagine that the noisy skin-bags suddenly moved towards you and their noises grew loud, and you have no idea why, no way of explaining them or predicting what they would do next.”


<Plankton>Sounds to me like she needs her brain privledges revoked. </Plankton>

Seriously is she really that fricking stupid or is she just a lying a-hole? I honestly can't tell sometimes with people.

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Wow, what a bunch of bigoted crap. Not treating people as mere "things" is a major aspect of my ethical thinking.


The real question, is she really that stupid and believes the garbage spewed from her mouth or is she a lying jackass who likes to demonize people? I just find it hard to believe that someone can really be that stupid, I can believe they are that evil though.


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18 Mar 2010, 8:16 pm

Let me put it to you this way, I do look at humans a humans, but sometimes I do have to urges once in a while not to care if they're suffering, oh but moments later I'll be like, "I'm so sorry!" lol

Yes I like being around NT and animals defently.



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18 Mar 2010, 9:38 pm

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The responses saying, "Yes, that's about right" intrigue me. I have some questions for you all:


I am sorry to resurrect this thread but I found it through reading a series of blog posts and it intrigued me, because of the relation, and lack of relation, to my experiences.

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1. What sort of Autism do you have? Asperger's? Kranner's? Etc.


Asperger and Kanner studied roughly identical cross-sections of autistic people. People who have made much of purported differences have not done a close enough reading of both of their works. By close enough, I mean separating out their observations of autistic people, from their often false conclusions about autistic people. Both of them saw autistic people who would today be stereotyped as high and low functioning, Kanner and Asperger. The only differences if any are the lenses they saw them through, and even that is dubious at times. Its entirely accidental that the names weren't reversed.

(I was diagnosed as autistic. I reject functioning labels but the only one I have seen in my official file was low. That says more about prejudice than it does about me.)

I believe I know an exact subtype of autistic people I belong to because my experiences strongly resonate with a number of people I have known, including the experiences I am about to describe. But there is no formal name for this subtype and the people in it span every single name that has been developed into formal subtypes. (So do the people outside it.). As far as I can tell we are not a majority of autistic people but not the smallest minority either.

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And then I sort of want to tease out the meaning of what you are saying.

2. Do you recognize other people as human--like you in some ways, different in others, but alive and thinking?


Since I didn't give my original perceptions of the world, I'll describe that here as well.

Basically I have always perceived the world as a lot of shifting sensations. Neither exactly how that professional described things nor exactly how people here have described things. I made no distinction between living and unliving things. People's biases assume I mean treating people as objects but I mean more that the entire world seems alive, although by no means does alive mean "like me". I do perceive a lot of shifting shapes and stuff (same in all my senses, vision is just the easiest to describe). But there is something entirely missing from that professional's description and if it resembles my perceptions it is almost entirely an accident based on standard views of autism (imagine a model that manages to simulate an aspect of reality but uses assumptions that are entirely wrong to power it).

So all those shifting perceptions remain how I perceive the world. I did not leave it behind in childhood like most people seem to describe. But along with never leaving it behind, comes abilities to find patterns in it, to navigate those patterns, and to find ways of understanding and interacting with the world that those who leave it behind (or who only dip into it occasionally) will never develop. And within those abilities (few of which have words for them, owing to a phenomenon I tried to describe in the latest issue of Disability Studies Quarterly) are the ability to have respect for other beings, human or otherwise. The mere fact of how my raw perceptions of the world handle things does not mean I cannot respect, resonate, pick up on emotions, or find patterns in the world outside of me. But while it includes humans it does not stop with humans. And my perception of the world has never been the bare blank and lifeless description of many professionals in the field, it has always been full of life and emotion even in a totally and completely different manner than those of standard neurology.

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3. How do you interact with others? Do you seek out human contact, even just to say hi or share a fact?


Anyone using this board to answer these questions is interacting with others.

My preferred way of interacting is wordless but entirely different from standard nonautistic interaction. It involves picking up on each other without necessarily having the most direct contact. Like two people separated by a firm line but sharing awareness in certain ways, picking up on each other more peripherally than directly but not lacking in a deep level of connection.

It tires me out to use language, and blunts my awareness, but I can do it sometimes, and even do it well despite the strain and the foreignness. Understanding language is incredibly hard and drops out a lot though.

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4. Do you think of humans as objects or toys, or are they "special" or different in your mind?


That's a hard question to answer because "think of ----- as objects" is a word-pattern that carries a specific meaning light-years away from my experience of the world. And totally different than even my experience of objects. Most people give objects a barrenness I would never give anything. Humans aren't that special but neither are they barren. They are worthy of respect, can be resonated with, and are not in the slightest bit how most people think of objects. But I don't relate to them or any other part of the world the same way most people do either. The trouble is the language people use around such things has all the wrong meanings and anything I say can be misinterpreted in ways far more offensive or inaccurate than the reality. (Even if I said I thought humans were special in a way the rest of the world wasn't. But equally misunderstandable if I say they're not.)


Return of the Oak Type Autie topic

Good to have you back, An...and your insightful comments,

I find humans interesting to analyze. Since I am also human I know I share the same attributes as other humans. My study of long dead historical figures that I have never met convinces me that they shared hopes, dreams, ideas with, for, and about other humans. (And I do prefer them to the living--they do not yell at me and I can deal with them remotely and abstractly. :lol: :P ) l Present day humans are best served sparingly, with a grain of salt. :roll: And I would rather read what they say than interact with them.


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19 Mar 2010, 2:05 am

Humans are fascinating creatures, as are birds, praying mantises, ants, snakes, and cars.

I add in cars, because I get the impression that a car has a soul, and that soul is simply to roll. I get distressed when I detect a poorly aligned part rubbing or thumping, crashing over potholes makes me wince, and I reflexively check out the damage done to the vehicles in a crash, not the condition of the passengers (unless they're still in the vehicle and I'm the first on the scene, in which case I am compelled to assist) so much.

Cats are my favorite though, being one myself makes me biased.



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19 Mar 2010, 5:10 pm

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Humans are fascinating creatures, as are birds, praying mantises, ants, snakes, and cars.

I add in cars, because I get the impression that a car has a soul, and that soul is simply to roll. I get distressed when I detect a poorly aligned part rubbing or thumping, crashing over potholes makes me wince, and I reflexively check out the damage done to the vehicles in a crash, not the condition of the passengers (unless they're still in the vehicle and I'm the first on the scene, in which case I am compelled to assist) so much.

Cats are my favorite though, being one myself makes me biased.


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