WP members GF ill with cancer
So many that trying to decide which ones to spend my money, time and attention on is beyond me; this "cause" interested me, that's all.
Who or what decides what is "waste"?
Noone is saying that seanmw is suffering more or even as much as many other people on WP. But I have no idea how to calculate who or what is "worthy" of attention or support, and this thread/instance simply "spoke" to me.
Because it has not been against the rules to ask for money, and we still don't know how this happened.
But I agree that giving him money was probably a bad idea, not because this might have been a scam, but because I think it was like leading someone into temptation; it was a mistake to send so much money to someone who was so clueless about so many simple concrete details ... the whole thread rather like putting a two year old who still can't walk very steadily onto a roundabout that they could not have climbed onto on their own, and then paying to have it speeded up.
It is precisely the absence of seanmw, his continued failure to keep us posted, etc, which is the one piece of behaviour that we can be absolutely sure is real ( in the last 11 days ), ... and it is my belief that this is not because he set out to do a runner with our donations, but because he has got himself into a big mess.
I don't think that he could possibly be talking about a "$200 taxi fare" in the hope of further donations; I think that it was just an excuse for why he hasn't gone yet.
It occurred to me reading this post that seeing as we don't know, and perhaps will never know, ( though I hope I'm wrong :lol ) , what happened here, what seanmw's real story is/has been, ... and seeing as there doesn't seem to be anything that we can do about it, whatever we think "it" is, ( and I spent the last 24 hours wondering what we could do ), ... that I might aswell believe the explanation that makes me feel, if not exactly happy at least not full of hate, resentment, anger, humiliation, bitterness, betrayal, etc.
Edit. PS. It was also the first explanation which enabled me to do something, ( apologise ).
Do you mean if he donated the money to Adrienne/the hypothetical gf? ... ... ... That's a new theory! :lol
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3. Did you even consider calling a taxi service in Indiana and ask how much it cost to pick up form plan and or bus stations? It may be that much
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If this trip ever were to become actual, he could take a bus, not a taxi. Although it may cost 200$ to get from the airport to the destination, every single airport in the U.S. has a bus depot. Taking a taxi when you could take a bus is ridiculous.
1)Take a bus from airport to bus stop closest to destination.
2)take a taxi from bus stop to destination. Or walk, if it's close enough. At his age I routinely walked any distance <5 miles to save money on cab fare.
(Describing a plan is not meant to imply that I believe any trip is being planned. It's just an example.)
3. Did you even consider calling a taxi service in Indiana and ask how much it cost to pick up form plan and or bus stations? It may be that much
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If this trip ever were to become actual, he could take a bus, not a taxi. Although it may cost 200$ to get from the airport to the destination, every single airport in the U.S. has a bus depot. Taking a taxi when you could take a bus is ridiculous.
1)Take a bus from airport to bus stop closest to destination.
2)take a taxi from bus stop to destination. Or walk, if it's close enough. At his age I routinely walked any distance <5 miles to save money on cab fare.
(Describing a plan is not meant to imply that I believe any trip is being planned. It's just an example.)
You make a good point, I wasn't sure if Indiana had a bus depot or not. It would make more since to take a bus.
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July 29, posted to WP 3:50 AM: “Surgery scheduled tomorrow.”
July 29, posted to WP 3:50 AM: “Surgery later today”
July 30, posted to WP 4:02 AM: “Although since the surgery, I've at least felt some relief at knowing that some mearure againt the cancer has finally been taken...” (What measures? Did they remove the tumor entirely? Was it exploratory surgery? Was it only for a biopsy? Nothing between his post on the 29th and this one indicates anyone has told him exactly what was done during this surgery.)
(Between July 30th and August 4th, only a few of his posts refer to speaking with her ~ I've left out all irrelevant posts.)
July 30, posted to WP 4:42 PM: “just talked to her on the phone, told her about the fruit thing, now she's napping again.” (Wait, what? What was done for the surgery?)
July 30, WP 4:47 PM: Talked about a missed call from her a couple of days before. Said he called back and found out the call was her mother texting she had a fever.
July 31, WP 11:42 AM: “...she said this before the surgery, but aside from just the surgery itself, she was going to have the radiation therapy and chemotherapy to try to get rid of whatever the surgery might have missed.” (Ah! So they must have at least tried to remove the entire tumor. Right?)
(Between the above post, and the following, he's either talking about movies, speculating on whether he is being lied to, explaining apparent inconsistent cell phone usage, or reporting how much money he's received.)
Aug 4, posted to WP 12:13 AM: “Reportedly the surgery went well”
Aug 5, WP 4:35 AM: “...not sure if she had medical insurance..”
Aug 5, 8:48 AM posted to Yahoo Answers: “how much does it cost generally for a person to have a stomach tumor removed? My girlfriend has one... It's about the size of a baseball currently.
Aug 5, WP 7:28 PM: “Prolly will pursue it either way.
I have an obligation to. & besides, i have to see for myself, otherwise i'll prolly not be able to forgive myself, and will always be wondering...”
Aug 5, WP 7:36 PM:”...also, i got a call from her early this morning.”
Aug 6, WP 1:13 PM: Announces he's being evicted.
Aug 7, WP 10:18 PM: “got through to Adrienne on the phone, yay
also got some more info.
She says that they said the tumor was cancerous, but it wasn't a late stage one. Like maybe it was only stage 1 or 2 .
She starts chemotherapy this Tuesday, she says.”
Judge for yourselves. I know what seems pretty clear to me. 'sall I've got to say.
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3. Did you even consider calling a taxi service in Indiana and ask how much it cost to pick up form plan and or bus stations? It may be that much
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If this trip ever were to become actual, he could take a bus, not a taxi. Although it may cost 200$ to get from the airport to the destination, every single airport in the U.S. has a bus depot. Taking a taxi when you could take a bus is ridiculous.
1)Take a bus from airport to bus stop closest to destination.
2)take a taxi from bus stop to destination. Or walk, if it's close enough. At his age I routinely walked any distance <5 miles to save money on cab fare.
(Describing a plan is not meant to imply that I believe any trip is being planned. It's just an example.)
You make a good point, I wasn't sure if Indiana had a bus depot or not. It would make more since to take a bus.
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Are you still trying to find an explanation??? There isn't one. This kid needs help. He's random and unpredictable in his behavior. And yeah there never was any GF. He fell for an Internet scam, and for reasons known only to him, he kept the pretense on WP long after he realized it was a scam.
Did Adrianna ever ask him for any money?
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If he was scammed by this girl then why hasn't he shown his face here, this matter could have been resolved by now, its sort of
a forgone conclusion that members think he is guilty, I would like to believe that he is innocent, but his silence speaks volumes.
Time line
July 29, posted to WP 3:50 AM: “Surgery scheduled tomorrow.”
July 29, posted to WP 3:50 AM: “Surgery later today”
July 30, posted to WP 4:02 AM: “Although since the surgery, I've at least felt some relief at knowing that some mearure againt the cancer has finally been taken...” (What measures? Did they remove the tumor entirely? Was it exploratory surgery? Was it only for a biopsy? Nothing between his post on the 29th and this one indicates anyone has told him exactly what was done during this surgery.)
(Between July 30th and August 4th, only a few of his posts refer to speaking with her ~ I've left out all irrelevant posts.)
July 30, posted to WP 4:42 PM: “just talked to her on the phone, told her about the fruit thing, now she's napping again.” (Wait, what? What was done for the surgery?)
July 30, WP 4:47 PM: Talked about a missed call from her a couple of days before. Said he called back and found out the call was her mother texting she had a fever.
July 31, WP 11:42 AM: “...she said this before the surgery, but aside from just the surgery itself, she was going to have the radiation therapy and chemotherapy to try to get rid of whatever the surgery might have missed.” (Ah! So they must have at least tried to remove the entire tumor. Right?)
(Between the above post, and the following, he's either talking about movies, speculating on whether he is being lied to, explaining apparent inconsistent cell phone usage, or reporting how much money he's received.)
Aug 4, posted to WP 12:13 AM: “Reportedly the surgery went well”
Aug 5, WP 4:35 AM: “...not sure if she had medical insurance..”
Aug 5, 8:48 AM posted to Yahoo Answers: “how much does it cost generally for a person to have a stomach tumor removed? My girlfriend has one... It's about the size of a baseball currently.
Aug 5, WP 7:28 PM: “Prolly will pursue it either way.
I have an obligation to. & besides, i have to see for myself, otherwise i'll prolly not be able to forgive myself, and will always be wondering...”
Aug 5, WP 7:36 PM:”...also, i got a call from her early this morning.”
Aug 6, WP 1:13 PM: Announces he's being evicted.
Aug 7, WP 10:18 PM: “got through to Adrienne on the phone, yay
also got some more info.
She says that they said the tumor was cancerous, but it wasn't a late stage one. Like maybe it was only stage 1 or 2 .
She starts chemotherapy this Tuesday, she says.”
Judge for yourselves. I know what seems pretty clear to me. 'sall I've got to say.
They say in Hollywood a good editor can make any bad film into a good one and on Mythbusters they proved you could polish a turd. Thats all I got to say.
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Did Adrianna ever ask him for any money?
That was never mentioned. Sean wanted the money so that he could go and visit her.
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Sean is just a pathetic excuse for a man. Even the Greyhound buses are cheaper than the supposed taxi cab fare. Really guys there are no more excuses. There's no point in speculating anymore. Either you let it go or take some sort of action, even if it's not legal action (I'm not saying do something illegal; I'm saying no law enforcement involved). Maybe his low-life future will be his punishment. Hasta luego.
Never mind then. I just made it all up. The post time line speaks for itself. The gist of it all is in the original posts.
The Yahoo Answers post is here:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/post*
It's dated and time stamped here:
http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JLCGIOJ7OK3OLIMDEX5TSINE5Y
I did not edit out (or in) the intent or meaning of any of it. It's all right there for anyone to either see for themselves or debunk.
Frankly, if it can be debunked, I wish someone would. I rather liked the guy.
I have no beef with him. I didn't send him any money. But if he did make off with other people's money here, for whatever reason, they deserve to know.
If you're so certain he didn't, why don't you spend the time I did to compile that time line, and prove me wrong? As I said, I liked the guy. I hope I am wrong. If the info I gathered is right though, it's not looking very promising.
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There are more important things to waste my time on like saying bump in threads needed a bump
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(bottom of p. 60)
that pretty much closed the book on this story for me.
i do have one question remaining though.
how much does an xbox cost?
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