The people in my life that this would apply to? They've tended to see me as incomplete, actually, and whether they see me as fool or wisewoman depends on their inclination, going in. (Medievalists, enjoy the irony: I certainly do.)
I'm not incomplete, of course; and thankfully, I don't need these people to change their viewpoints in order for me to feel complete. But getting to that point took a long, long time, some good people at close range, and a clear diagnosis that I could then research for myself.
Hugs all around to anyone comfortable with them, who's frustrated by this false binary thing, because it sure exists.
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"I believe you find life such a problem because you think there are the good people and the bad people," said the man. "You're wrong, of course. There are, always and only, the bad people, but some of them are on opposite sides."
-- Terry Pratchett, Guards! Guards!