Something recent for me is that I have some people in my life who are practically complete strangers, but when they run into me they are giving me unsolicited advice about a new enterprise in my life. I now bitterly regret ever sharing news of this project with them.
I shared the news as strictly on the basis of "This is something new and exciting I'm doing lately and it's going well and I'm happy and excited, check it out if you like!"
That was the spirit in which I told these people about this thing I'm doing.
Now. . . .EVERY time they see me, they ask how it's going.
Okay, you might be thinking what's wrong with that? Just a polite question.
But one person makes it seem like if my answer does not contain news of actual progress, then I'm failing. Realistically there is NOT going to be a stunning amount of progress every few days, but this is the frequency with which this person asks, and I'm hating it.
The other person asks how it's going and even when I say, with happy smile and lots of enthusiasm that it's actually going great, this person starts handing out tips and advice as if it's all going in the toilet! Seriously, she stands there telling me what I need to do.
I never. Even. Asked.
I never even said anything like oooh it's not going well, complain complain worry worry.
Yet she hands out completely unasked for advice, even though this particular thing is the one area of my life that IS going just fine and I'm not seeking help.
It's getting on my LAAAAST NERRRRRRVE.