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ominous
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17 Feb 2015, 10:07 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

There's no homophobia going on. I would feel the same with a straight woman who wants another guy.

Sorry I probably misunderstood. I thought you said you would be worried about going out with someone who was bi because you might worry that she would leave you for a woman. I confuse easily at times! My apologies.

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17 Feb 2015, 10:09 pm

It doesn't matter if she left me for a man or a woman---I would still feel the same.

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17 Feb 2015, 10:40 pm

Makes sense to me.

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17 Feb 2015, 10:55 pm

I probably am, because I am still a virgin and have no real plans or desires to spend my life with another person. But why do people always assume that if you "notice" an attractive person you must have sexual feelings for them. But I notice attractive things all the time, like pretty flowers or a handsome male deer. It doesn't mean I want to have sex with flowers or a deer.

If I noticed a woman's breasts are of unusual size or exposed, why wouldn't I notice that? That is an unusual sight, especially in the dead of winter. If a guy's butt was hanging out of his pants, I'd notice that too. :lol:

I guess I should be glad I was born female because society thinks women only want sex because they want children and guys are lustful all the time.

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18 Feb 2015, 8:36 am

lostonearth35 wrote:

I guess I should be glad I was born female because society thinks women only want sex because they want children and guys are lustful all the time.

That right there is why I wanted to hang around the girls in school even though the feeling was far from mutual. All the boys talked about was sex, sex, sex and I had someone between zero and no interest in it. I have always appreciated the beauty of the feminine form but in the same way I love a smiling baby or a gentle waterfall.

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25 Feb 2015, 3:23 am

ominous wrote:

mistersprinkles wrote:

What do you mean by your "Ability to smoke weed cycle"? When you smoke weed you want sex? Or the opposite? I find that when I smoke weed it has no effect at all on my labido.

It seems to increase my libido. I never noticed it before a recent acquisition of some weed to assist with other health issues. When I thought back to other periods in my life where I was smoking regularly, it also increased my libido then. I don't want sex when I smoke weed, but have an increased libido. I don't really want sex at all; like blowing my nose, it is something I can take care of myself.

I think of it as more like scratching an itch.

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13 Apr 2015, 4:24 am

ImAnAspie wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

Nope... I enjoy the Chicas Bonitas! :wink:

I've never heard of that term before, Kraftie - and I hope I never do again

It conjures up unpleasant thoughts.

YUK!

Sorry Kraftie. I'm an idiot. I'm a bit slow (2 months slow).

I've just realised 'Chicas Bonitas' means 'beautiful ladies' in Spanish.

I thought it was a euphemism for sex. :roll: