Aspie Men are Jerks

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Aspie women are fantastic. More thought, less drama.[/quote]

Why thank you!

It helps that we know what we want, and say so...

I can't stand it when guys don't say what they mean/want/need, or when they try to play mindgames with you - turns me off completely...

I didn't know i was such an agressive dumbass.
Thanx for informing me Kathy

I don't need to read any other post than the first. That is B.S.

"Lack of sexual intimacy." Blech. I've heard too many female friends gripe about how every guy wants to get in her pants. Now these sluts gripe about how we don't wanna f**k every time we make eye contact (Well, talking about autistics, we might actually want to f**k every time we make eye contact, and that would be rarely. LOL.). B.S.

My ex was too into me sexually. There was even a point where she told me that she wasn't a relationship that was "less physical and more emotional." My exact reply word-for-word was, "I try to, but you won't let me." She broke up with me when I missed her after not seeing her for months.

Then I hear one of my female friends gripe about her ex being a horny piece of turd and just wanting to get in her pants. She wanted a guy who wanted to "just cuddle and talk." I wanted to hook up right then and there, but we live too far away. ^^;

I simply feel that it's a complete lie written by a psychologist (Mind you that psychologists are the enemy and will stop at nothing to give Aspies a bad name.[/paranoia]) in a sexually unfulfilling relationship. He wants to make someone else look bad.

I am actually a very caring and thoughtful person towards people I love, so I find it insulting to suggest a person with Asperger's syndrome is incapable of sustaining a good relationship because of their having Asperger's syndrome. I've met socially adept NT women much less caring than me.

It's things like that which make me glad that Asperger's isn't something people are commonly aware of. It's hard enough for me to make a good impression without some kind of presupposition working against me. Which, by the way, is what that site is - it looks like she just read over a brief description of autism and drew conclusions about autistic husbands from there. I read it the way an anthropomorphic squirrel fireman reads Richard Scarry. (Sorry, that was the best I could do )

It's also why I don't like to "come out of the closet;" there are so many people that would use AS as an offense against you when they're having a bad day or something.

Funny thing is, I read an article or something awhile back by an AS couple discouraging people with AS from pairing off unless they're absolutely certain, suggesting that difficulties in communication and functionality can compound with two AS individuals.

Now I see an article on why NT women shouldn't have relationships with Aspies.

Seems like they want to keep us from breeding if they can't cure us. And NT society in general wants Aspies:

1) To give them meaningful advancements or at least fill "tedious" positions they don't want.

2) To be satisfied with being alone. After all, we don't have feelings, obviously, if we say what we think.

3) To stop breeding.

4) To submit to cures and treatments.

Look, I'm all for constructive criticism. I'm all for strategies of expressing myself and meeting objectives and understanding people.

But if any other ethnic group (and I'm starting to think that's what we are) experienced the kinds of language leveled at Aspies, it would be as chilling as if these AS-critics paraded around in Nazi uniforms.

It feels as if they think we're too stupid to realize we're being talked about in these books and papers -- or maybe they're BETTING on us finding these articles and buying their books out of outrage.