Is there such thing as 'mild' Aspergers?

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11 May 2009, 5:35 am

Daniel has been thinking: "mild" AS might be that border where normal and disorder meet, intermingle, and create questions about what's normal and what isn't.

To clear up a misnomer, "spectrum" doesn't denote "dimensional". Spectrum as of its origins equated to several labels that grouped individuals based on severity, which came from Lorna Wing, and is described in-depth by her papers and books (aloof, passive, odd but active, and overly formal and stilted). See: Profound Autism at one end, which moves to Kanner's (HFA and half of LFA), to Asperger's and then on to Schizoid PD/"mild" AS/SPD/NLD.



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11 May 2009, 10:05 am

If I've posted on this thread before I apologise for this repeat, but I was diagnosed mild asperger's when I was 11, and I would definately say it is possible. My blog can describe this well.


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11 May 2009, 11:29 am

Even though I've already posted there is something else.

Even though I'm mild, just how mild tends to fluctuate depending on the environment or my feelings. I have ranged from "almost NT" mild to "pretty bad" mild quite a few times since getting diagnosed, and it's still fluctuating now, I never stay the same.
I have taken both the AQ and aspie quiz twice. First time I got 38 AQ and 144 aspie quiz, second time I got 33 and 149. I wonder what it'll be next time.


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11 May 2009, 12:56 pm

Hodor, I'd say yes, there is a great variation when it comes to the degree of troubles with all people within the spectrum.I,myself do tend to have some social problems but, also I as well have trouble sometimes being able to pick up on underlying intention in another's actions and words that, has caused me a great deal of trouble from time to time.Therefore all people vary in his/her extent of the difficulties faced in daily life.. I wished I could elaborate more upon this but, I've never been that good with words to a certain points whereabouts; I'll let the more knowledgeable persons in this forum provide such..


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27 Aug 2009, 10:57 pm

i have a feeling that i may have a mild case of Asperger's disease. i am 15 but i look like i'm way younger. at school i have trouble making new friends. i have a couple friends that fade in and out but i can never seem to make new ones. when i'm around people that aren't my close friends i get really quiet and have nothing to say and i can't look them straight in the eye. but it is really re-assuring that other people have the same thing. but the problem is.. no one else can tell.. so if i would want to go tell my mom she'd think i was just going through a phase or something. but i really think that i have this disease. i listen to the same song over and over again without even realizing it and i am very intellectual and like movies and books a lot. but no one knows because they don't even notice me. i've never had a highschool flame with a boy, because they don't notice me. i'm cute and have nice clothes and i'm skinny so why don't they? i just can't be outgoing and i don't know what to do. i might have other problem but i'm pretty posotive that i have mild or even low-range Asperger's disease.



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27 Aug 2009, 11:34 pm

steph25 wrote:
i have a feeling that i may have a mild case of Asperger's disease. i am 15 but i look like i'm way younger. at school i have trouble making new friends. i have a couple friends that fade in and out but i can never seem to make new ones. when i'm around people that aren't my close friends i get really quiet and have nothing to say and i can't look them straight in the eye. but it is really re-assuring that other people have the same thing. but the problem is.. no one else can tell.. so if i would want to go tell my mom she'd think i was just going through a phase or something. but i really think that i have this disease. i listen to the same song over and over again without even realizing it and i am very intellectual and like movies and books a lot. but no one knows because they don't even notice me. i've never had a highschool flame with a boy, because they don't notice me. i'm cute and have nice clothes and i'm skinny so why don't they? i just can't be outgoing and i don't know what to do. i might have other problem but i'm pretty posotive that i have mild or even low-range Asperger's disease.

Sounds to me like you're just a normal teenager...


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28 Aug 2009, 2:38 am

I consider myself a 'mildie' because I have enough adaptations so my impairments are minor, and fall into the 'eccentricity' category to most NTs.

But my aspie traits are pretty pervasive, and the adaptations are cognitive, so they are in the 'wrong' part of the brain.

When I first took the AQ, I scored 132/200. Then I took it again based on how I was at say 18-20. I scored 183. The cognitive adaptations take time.

Then I took it again, for how I am now, after I was more in touch with aspie characteristics, and I scored 167. So I had a big denial/ignorance factor when I first took the test.

I was amazingly lucky to have a family and school when I was young who let me be special and valued the good side of my peculiarness. That helped me make the adaptations, and avoided the crushing esteem problems and bullying and rejection that seem to be our biggest problems.

So I don't know how much the brain structure fades to NT, but the problems can certainly fade to 'not statistically significant'.


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30 Aug 2009, 10:47 pm

Hodor wrote:
I'm just wondering out of curiosity. Most people on this forum, as far as I know, have problems with social interaction, reading other people's body language and expressions, figuring out other people's intentions, sensory issues, a literal understanding of language and physical clumsiness/awkwardness - to some extent.

Some symptoms/traits (or whatever) seem to be worse than others, depending on the person. Personally, my sensory issues and problems with eye contact are fairly minimal but I am hopeless at anything practical and find it hard to build up meaningful relationships.

Is it possible to qualify for having Aspergers when all of the traits are minimal? Can you have it mild, or would that just mean that you're neuro-just-about-typical? Do any of you feel that you only have mild Aspergers?


I have mild AS. Most of the traits are internalized/hidden. When people touch me, I might not physically freak out, but you can tell that I am uncomfortable. I can communicate ok with people, hold a job ok (provided that it is not sales), and live alone ok. The only problems I have that people can pick up on are the social/emotional/interpersonal traits. That is probably why I was given a DX. So now I go to counseling to work on that. If I didn't have problems in communication, I would probably just be labeled as "off". In fact, most people won't guess AS unless I tell them. Then it makes sense. The internalization of my problems is one of the reasons that I was diagnosed at 25 instead of younger. People tend to give adults less leeway.


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31 Aug 2009, 6:49 am

Shiggily wrote:
Hodor wrote:
I'm just wondering out of curiosity. Most people on this forum, as far as I know, have problems with social interaction, reading other people's body language and expressions, figuring out other people's intentions, sensory issues, a literal understanding of language and physical clumsiness/awkwardness - to some extent.

Some symptoms/traits (or whatever) seem to be worse than others, depending on the person. Personally, my sensory issues and problems with eye contact are fairly minimal but I am hopeless at anything practical and find it hard to build up meaningful relationships.

Is it possible to qualify for having Aspergers when all of the traits are minimal? Can you have it mild, or would that just mean that you're neuro-just-about-typical? Do any of you feel that you only have mild Aspergers?


I have mild AS. Most of the traits are internalized/hidden. When people touch me, I might not physically freak out, but you can tell that I am uncomfortable. I can communicate ok with people, hold a job ok (provided that it is not sales), and live alone ok. The only problems I have that people can pick up on are the social/emotional/interpersonal traits. That is probably why I was given a DX. So now I go to counseling to work on that. If I didn't have problems in communication, I would probably just be labeled as "off". In fact, most people won't guess AS unless I tell them. Then it makes sense. The internalization of my problems is one of the reasons that I was diagnosed at 25 instead of younger. People tend to give adults less leeway.


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Mild AS person here too.

The more "mild" your AS is, the easier/more successful you can be at adapting to it WITHOUT formal assistance from a professional. This is good in that your AS isn't as obvious as it could be so people need not know you have it.

Sadly, being "mild" also means nobody (least of all yourself) knows why you are the way you are. You need to find someone who recognizes what does show and proposes the idea that you might have AS before you're likely to discover what's really going on inside of you.

I was 40 when I first discovered AS.



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31 Aug 2009, 10:14 am

Seeing as autism is a SPECTRUM, it's certainly possible to have mild AS.


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01 Sep 2009, 7:08 pm

I would characterize mine as mild; most people would just say I was introverted (actually not so much) and poor at mixing at parties (unless they happen to be talking my specialty of late 19th century early 20th French Classical music LOL in which case I am the center of attention!! !)

I have worked all my life although I prefer to be self-employed (as I am now) as I never fit into the socio-political mindset at work and did not gossip nor see the hidden agendas (in the time before I became a music teacher).

So mainly people, if you asked them, would think of me as "eccentric" not disabled by a longshot, although inside I FEEL totally disabled socially.

Still all-in-all, I would not want to be "cured" as I value my talents in music, math, organizing and other areas typical of "Aspiehood".



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01 Sep 2009, 7:14 pm

I was told by my first therapist that I have it mildly. Although there are times when I wonder if it really is as mild as he said... my main issue is maintaining friendships (big surprise) and overall I'm extremely introverted which doesn't really help me at work. But I've done ok as far as keeping my job, etc. I'm still too afraid to ask my new therapist if he thinks it's mild or not. Ignorance is bliss...


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02 Sep 2009, 5:02 am

2ukenkerl wrote:
There IS a "mild aspergers", but that apparently means that you are about the level I am. You SEEM normal, for the most part. Supposedly, Stephen spielberg and Dan akroyd have mild aspergers.

BTW I have problems with social interaction, reading other people's body language and expressions, figuring out other people's intentions, sensory issues, a literal understanding of language and physical clumsiness/awkwardness - to some extent. Of course, from a literal understanding, I can see relationships that some others might see so I may see other meanings. ALSO, I understand a lot of sayings, etc...

I have sensory issues and problems with eye contact and find it hard to build up meaningful relationships.

Still, I seem normal.


That's where I am, but at the same time....I don't come off as normal to anybody. I can have halfway decent interactions with some people, and handle myself well overall, but I still have the majority of the traits and quips that other Autistic folks do. And my social skills--for the most part--are still otherwise a trainwreck, unless I'm overly comfortable with the people. Either that, or they're just really great people who don't mind how bad it's coming out. :lol: :lol:



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13 Jul 2010, 6:15 am

I wasn't told how severe my Asperger's is when I was diagnosed, just that I fulfilled all the criteria. Can I ask, has anyone here been told that they have mild or mid-range Asperger's, and what it's like , so I can compare? I don't know what to say if people ask how severe it is.

I have sensory issues, social problems, clumsiness, I do repetitive motions, I have few interests which I engage in repetitively/obsessively and I have meltdowns from situations where I get sensory overload or where I'm forced to try socialize like "normal" people do. I don't scream when I'm reacting badly to something nor do I throw up on the spot or get in any way violent, but I will feel very nauseous, I will get headaches or a funny dizzy feeling in my head and I'll feel highly emotional - I just don't get loud or express it very obviously. People will notice that I look sick when it happens. Is anybody else here like this?



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13 Jul 2010, 7:20 am

Yes, thats what I supposedly have, but I think it's more than that.



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13 Jul 2010, 8:25 am

Wow, this is an old one. There is no mild version aspergers. You either have it, or you don't. I don't have half the issues that some on here have, but I still have Aspergers.


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