-Vorzac- wrote:
What's really funnny? I don't think I have aspergers anymore. Because I certainly don't act like some of hte more unpleasent people here, even if I can be unpleasent myself. I've always attacked people by their character, not whether they're more autistic or not.
The Militant Us-And-Theem attitude here is sickening. Still, what can you expect form idiots with no theory of mind, who aren't smart enough to read a psychology textbook and learn that We.Are.All.Humans.
Half of you are lovley nice people, and I wish you well in the future. the other half I wouldn't waste my spit on.
As my friend said 'A community built around a Neurological disorder and a lack of empathy can't be but a bit unhinged'
A few points:
I try to be constructive here, and I have AS.
I am very, very empathetic (once someone verbalizes what's going on) and I have AS.
I do not flame anyone or shove my religion down anyone's throat (it's against my religion to do that) and I have AS.
I have read many psychology textbooks, and the people in my life are nearly all NT, and I love them all. And I have AS.
So what's not to like? Why throw away your diagnosis because you've found some lousy people around here. There are lousy people everywhere. Concentrate on the good people and hope for the best with the others. That's what I do, anyway, and that way, I get support for what's going on with me and I can try to be helpful to people having a tough time.
When I hear the us-and-them thing going on here, I figure that it's either coming from younger people who have been through bullying and the sting is still very fresh, or that it's coming from people who have had a lot of bad experiences in their lives and have chosen a life of taking sides. I don't take the us-and-them thing very seriously, because it's way too simplistic. But that's just me. To each his/her own.
As for this community being unhinged--it's no more unhinged than any other community. Ever belong to a religious community? An academic community? A corporate community? I've belonged to all three. I no longer belong to any of them. I prefer a life of sanity.