i essentially feel gender neutral...
as for sexuality, i'm not interested in engaging with other people sexually, but as a third party i'd get aroused. i'm perfectly satisfied with autoeroticism and i don't need a partner to be sexually satiated. i'm "physically attracted" to men--particularly somewhat feminine men--but not in a sexual way, with the exception of the genitals. but i wouldn't ever touch, just look, and be totally satisfied.
i don't "date" and the idea of exclusive romantic relationships is silly.