We are doing structured activities, since we've experienced the same problems at Aspie support group meetings. There were two really obnoxious people who tended to hijack the meetings and talk endlessly about themselves and their problems, it was really irritating. We have a cabana at a condo to use at first, so we're thinking of starting off with some easy stuff like coffee and some ice breaker questions. Later, we'd like to start doing movie night, or go bowling, stuff like that. We're ambitious, if things go well enough, we'd like to look into acquiring a premises and running a full time Aspie community center sort of thing. We were thinking it would be a space with different sections for watching tv, board games, conversation nooks, all sorts of things. People could purchase a membership, to cover rent and upkeep, and drop in at any time. We're still working out the details, but I think it would be pretty cool if it worked out. My ma is looking to buy an investment property anyway, so finding one with commercial and residential space wouldn't be too difficult, so it's not as far fetched as it sounds. Anyway, we're starting small, but hopefully we'll get some good members, and go from there.