Can somebody help me with my family?

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They are cruel, heartless, emotionless and evil.
My brothers constantly tease me and annoy me, and my mother doesn't show any sympathy.

They make me angry and threaten to call the police if I express my anger.

The act as if they are doing the right thing but they are just cruel, heartless beings.

What can I do?

all you can do is survive long enough till you can leave, uni and halls would be a practical structured way out

If you have your own bedroom with a doorknob that locks, stay in that bedroom most of the time. If you can, invest in a mini-fridge and whatever other resources you need to practically live in your room.

Either that, or stay outside most of the time. Find a "secret place" and don't tell anyone about it.

If you can, spend the majority of your time at a friend's house.

I agree with CleverKitten. Try to stay out of their way as much as possible until you can move out of the house.
I'm assuming you tried to be nice and reason with them.

I was really overreacting, they aren't that bad

I had a lot of issues with my family that went away when I moved out on my own, and even then, I still have issues at times.

One thing I do now, I created a rule that I strictly follow. All arguments are to be moved to email. Aspies have a hard time making their point when frustrated, and arguments get really frustrating to Aspies, and email gives you the freedom to research some things, think clearly, and edit. Many times, I write two emails for every argument. One that I vent and end up saving as a draft never to use again. The other one is the one I end up sending when I'm more solution oriented as opposed to just angry. But if you go that route, don't say you have to do it because you are Aspie. It's something all people can equally benefit from, and just tell everyone that you think arguments can be more productive if they were moved online.