Aimless wrote:
I was having a conversation with a family member who is a counselor and commented that if the larger NT population would just open their minds to different ways of being there wouldn't be so much of a disorder mindset. She was telling me about a man she knew who is brilliant and holds advanced degrees in his field but works a a dishwasher because he can't function socially. It seems stupid to me to let talent like that go to waste.
But that
is a disorder - that's the very definition of a disorder. It would not serve such a person well at all if the community at large said "you're not disabled, you're just a little different", because they would still treat him as a social pariah, but he'd be ineligible for any kind of assistance - and I can't believe a counselor wouldn't encourage that man to seek disability assistance.
Personally, I spent most of my life being treated as though I were essentially the same as everyone else when in fact I was not. That's why it was okay to bully me, to cheat and abuse me, to tell me I was a loser and a bum - because I supposedly had all the same abilities and advantages every NT had. But I
didn't. I wasn't like them - and on an unspoken level, we all knew it.
Yes, it's stupid for society to let a brilliant mind go to waste like that. But I believe it's no smarter to think that teaching NT society that the spectrum is so wide '
we're all on it somewhere' is dangerously counterproductive and essentially untrue. It is
very specifically a handicap. Hooray for those with AS who become brilliant success stories, but there are plenty more of us educated dishwashers out here who will
never be accepted socially, thus always struggling economically, no matter what the prevailing attitude in the media that week.