There is no room for those who do not drive.....

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MissConstrue
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20 Sep 2009, 11:39 pm

In the U.S.

I may be wrong by anyone's insight would be so helpful. The taxi cabs here in the U.S. states mainly in the midwest (where I live) is so hard. Even when I do go hitchiking, it's very rare and ppl are very suspicious....and I don't blame them. But I really have no one close nor closeship wise to have enough time. I also try and pay these ppl yet still whenever I call, they don't show up. This is getting harder for me and my visits to the only jobs that pay for a living.

MY question is, would it be better to move frorm the U.S. or to another state. If another state, where is public transit more tolerable? I dont' assumet the grass is greener on any kind of sticks but this is getting more and more frustrating, even among my dad and (people who just can't drive).

The poor towns here are great yet they do not get you very far nor near where one lives. I do not live in the K.C. section. Maybe if I did it would be easier, but the crimes and evictions seem so high on the rise right now. It would be great if you all had your inputs on the situations, American or not. This is getting very hard even among some family and relatives I know.

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20 Sep 2009, 11:41 pm

Austin has a good mass transit system, and we're getting a commuter rail system any day.


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20 Sep 2009, 11:46 pm

I wouldn't hitch hike...it's too dangerous. You could get kidnapped that way. The best rapid transit is in the bay area of California, but since the state is pretty much bankrupt, I wouldn't move out there at the moment...
The Northeast US has subways which make getting around easy but you do a lot of walking in and around Manhattan, even with the subway.
The town Madison in Wisconsin is supposed to be good for bike riders.



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20 Sep 2009, 11:53 pm

I live in Houston, and I ride my bike all over the place when I am in the trend of actually leaving my house.



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20 Sep 2009, 11:53 pm

Have you considered a bicycle? Or a moped?

If neither are an option, yes you could move to a metro area with good public transport. Boston and NY have good public transportation. So do San Fran, Portland OR and Seattle. (LA has buses but you are more likely to have an unpleasant encounter there than anywhere else. LA is great to visit, but it blows to live there.)

I've only been to the midwest once (Chicago and Mineapolis) and had a rental car so I can't comment. I've never been in the south.

I can highly recommend Seattle. :) I lived without a car for many years.



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21 Sep 2009, 12:08 am

Tim_Tex wrote:
Austin has a good mass transit system, and we're getting a commuter rail system any day.


Where and are there any jobs I might be able to have an advantage in living off or having services to be at least feasible on? I admire your words Tim, it's just that, it's getting harder and harder to find jobs you were trained to do...(not that this is unsurprisable). But I think I ad anyone should very much care about their healthcare needs. But right now, I'm somewhat living with a tent over my head and very.....very lucky to have a family that's been helping me back. I only hope I can repay the in return. I would love to pay my neighbor back but I'm so confused with the prices in things and our government.

There are much to learn from ppl....(if only I were more social or socially inhibited) than those who have I've learned through paycheck and private schooling....who I've still had difficulty in learning through and very much myself taken for granted. It is ashame it cost more than ever. Anyway, I'm thinking of moving but to where I don't know lol....."financially".. Doesn't matter and I'm not sure what all aspies think but I feel that animals of any kind really help you get thorugh the day and help with our "responsibilites in life"...






Anyway, this is way to long and verbose like many of my subjects and posts. So I don't care, please give any feedback, thoughts, or whatever to answere back. I'm not big on making posts. But it would be nice to here no matter where you're from....some thoughts, difficulities, and life in general whether you're aspie, autie, whatever anything or not.! !! !


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21 Sep 2009, 12:10 am

If you're looking to stay in the Midwest, I have a lot of friends here (Chicago) that do not own a car and get around just fine. I take it you aren't in that part of the midwest?


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21 Sep 2009, 12:16 am

Another vote for Chicago--I've lived carfree here for 4 years and get around just fine. The trains are great and the bus system covers what the trains don't reach.



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21 Sep 2009, 12:42 am

Tim_Tex wrote:
Austin has a good mass transit system, and we're getting a commuter rail system any day.


You seem like a great guy Tim, but I would think the the tax cost and educations is much more hire. Anyway, I've never really been in the capital of Texas so would be good to know. Also, when I say good guy, I am only judging my perceptions online. I would very much love to meet you and those who might share some comon/different similarities to me. There is not so many support groups for anything including aspergers in my area. Well....ppl going and frowing.


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21 Sep 2009, 12:47 am

Even with a paratransit card, I can't get across county lines to a neurologist where I'm at now. I wish I were back in the SF Bay Area, or at least the Monterey Bay Area, but then, the Housing prices and expenses were too high!! !



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21 Sep 2009, 1:07 am

We live about 40 minutes out from Columbia in an itty bitty Missouri burg, and yep, what you say about transportation is true here.

It's not so much another state as it is another city, with the key word being 'city' - massively built up metropolitan areas, with a million people all squashed in together, generally have the better public transport systems.

Thing about public transportation and other services is that there are more where the higher densities of people are.
Density of people = more demand for land = higher prices for land = higher prices for most everything else = more stress over prices.

This is a "car country" - if you have no car, you are a non-person.

My brother lived in Germany for several years, I have a good internet friend there, and Germany's transport system sounds well integrated.
Andy and his wife get around quite well on bicycles, transit, and even "community shared" car services.

Anything in our country like that?
One does wish.

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Doesn't matter and I'm not sure what all aspies think but I feel that animals of any kind really help you get thorugh the day and help with our "responsibilites in life"...

That they do, that they do.
I wouldn't be here to babble and ramble without that little grinning dude who's currently my avatar.


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21 Sep 2009, 1:18 am

MissConstrue wrote:
There is not so many support groups for anything including aspergers in my area. Well....ppl going and frowing.


Is this an outfit you are aware of? http://www.nami.org/
NAMI: National Alliance on Mental Illness
They recently worked on starting activity in our burg.
Ironically, effects of what I've got led me to not be able to handle the interaction in the meetings! Go figure.

:arrow: any chance there might be something where you are?

They do have info on Aspergers:
http://www.nami.org/Template.cfm?sectio ... isplay.cfm
A website search brought up 45 records, here's 5 examples
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Searched NAMI for asperger
Note: To search for an exact phrase, use quotes (ex: "bipolar disorder")

Order: Sorted by relevance [Sort by date]

Document 1) NAMI: National Alliance on Mental Illness | Home (69%) - 08/28/2008
There is no specific treatment or "cure" for Asperger Syndrome. Treatment is geared toward improving communication, social skills, and behavior management. Many children with Asperger Syndrome also have......

Document 2) Microsoft Word - NAMI Fact Sheet on Asperger Syndrome.doc (68%) - 04/05/2006
A child wi h AS of en has pro lems wi h normally developed ver al as well as non- ver al in erac ion ools. This kind of ehavior is demons ra ed y a preoccupa ion wi h cer ain ac ions or o jec s wi hin......

Document 3) NAMI: National Alliance on Mental Illness | Home (68%) - 03/06/2001
A child with Asperger experiences no clinically significant delay in cognitive development and does not experience a gross delay in developing language skills. On the other hand, Asperger individuals may......

Document 4) NAMI: National Alliance on Mental Illness | Home (67%) - 01/09/2001
There is also evidence to suggest the syndrome is far more common than classic autism and may be diagnosed in children who have never previously been considered autistic. The book explores the effects......

Document 5) NAMI: National Alliance on Mental Illness | Home (66%) - 12/16/2000
Asperger's Syndrome: A Guide for Parents and Professionals by Tony Attwood (Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 1998. Yet Attwood provides considerable information to help correct misconceptions, and he offers......


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21 Sep 2009, 1:30 am

southwestforests wrote:
We live about 40 minutes out from Columbia in an itty bitty Missouri burg, and yep, what you say about transportation is true here.

It's not so much another state as it is another city, with the key word being 'city' - massively built up metropolitan areas, with a million people all squashed in together, generally have the better public transport systems.

Thing about public transportation and other services is that there are more where the higher densities of people are.
Density of people = more demand for land = higher prices for land = higher prices for most everything else = more stress over prices.

This is a "car country" - if you have no car, you are a non-person.

My brother lived in Germany for several years, I have a good internet friend there, and Germany's transport system sounds well integrated.
Andy and his wife get around quite well on bicycles, transit, and even "community shared" car services.

Anything in our country like that?
One does wish.

MissConstrue wrote:
Doesn't matter and I'm not sure what all aspies think but I feel that animals of any kind really help you get thorugh the day and help with our "responsibilites in life"...

That they do, that they do.
I wouldn't be here to babble and ramble without that little grinning dude who's currently my avatar.





This is the very much same stuff I am hearing. It is becoming so hard and I'm so stupid with directions, It's kinda scaring me.....and so much everthing else that if so much subcribe to my location, I get a label.

However, when I first when homeless, of friendship I madeof...dogs, cats, sheep, goats, cats, and even rodents I use to withold this silly info...still silly?

Still confused, I was not so much raised with a materilistiac attitude...Even to this day with a lavish parties I can't help but get upset with......even when a gal or guy offers me money. Both my parents worked sooooo hard for their educations and stupid social status here.....even though I didnt' know at the time.

Just goes to show you wealth is not everything nor status and self worth


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21 Sep 2009, 2:44 am

southwestforests wrote:
This is a "car country" - if you have no car, you are a non-person.


Kind of true here, though especially on the outskirt suburbs. A lot of people in the more central suburbs dont have cars, but the buses and trains are really irregular and annoying. I was in town last week while my car was getting fixed and I missed the train back to the panel shop, and had to wait half an hour for another one. That being the normal frequency of trains going south. A city of one million people and only 4 train lines. Ridiculous!


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21 Sep 2009, 2:56 am

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MY question is, would it be better to move frorm the U.S. or to another state.

I'd definitely recommend moving out of the United States. I was quite shocked when I found out in how poor shape the rail system was over there, to be honest.

zen_mistress wrote:
A city of one million people and only 4 train lines. Ridiculous!

That's just wrong. 8O


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21 Sep 2009, 3:10 am

Henriksson wrote:

zen_mistress wrote:
A city of one million people and only 4 train lines. Ridiculous!

That's just wrong. 8O


I know... wrong. :?


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