I don't think I've ever met other autistics who weren't perfectionists in some way. I've always been a perfectionist when it came to my work (academic work, chores, etc). For example, I did an exam in college a few weeks ago and got a very high pass, but I wasn't completely satisfied with it. My tutors tell me that my work is going along quite well, but I can't really "see the forest for the trees" and I don't feel as if I've really put as much effort and care into it as I could have.
I've always been a competitive person and I really hate losing. I remember overreacting because I felt like it was my fault that my team in PE lost a football game and I started crying even though I'm usually very stoic and hate to express emotions in public. I'm one of these people that write lists but never complete them and then as soon as they notice a mistake or a barrier in their work, they cannot continue working and start panicking and feeling complete despair for not getting it completely right. I'm usually very critical of myself and others and my family tells me that I have a nack for finding flaws in everything, heheh.
Long story short, I'm a textbook example of a perfectionist and it seems that I've always been this way. This is neither a good thing or a bad thing, though apparently, perfectionism is linked to autism. That's not to say that everyone who is a perfectionist is autistic.
So, I guess what I should be asking is is there anyone on the autism spectrum who ISN'T a perfectionist? Also, if you are a perfectionist, maybe you could talk about how this affects you. If you aren't a perfectionist, perhaps you could express your frustration at perfectionists driving you crazy
Oh, by the way- I've been editing and re-writing this message for ages, heheh! No doubt, there's probably loads of errors still there. I never was very linguistically intelligent...