sgrannel wrote:
So what if it's a guy looking for a relationship with a woman, what's so wrong about that? Why is it that even men have been culturally programmed to believe that wanting a woman is automatically creepy? A lot of guys end up meeting their female partners this way. A woman usually comes from some bad situation, sometimes because she can't get along with her mother or can't afford to buy her own house, so she stays with a guy. They end up liking each other, having kids, getting married, etc. If not this, then men and women usually end up pairing off under other life circumstances that bring them together, such as a long friendship. Happens all the time. You don't think guys just walk up to complete strangers looking for partners, do you?
Yeah but then he could be doing other things. Like, things that might involve bodies buried in the backyard. Feels too much like he's luring women so he can doooo things to them, which they may necessarily not want.
It's not that wanting a woman is creepy, it's a man and a woman who are not married/in a relationship that are not related sharing a house that is creepy. It provides for a situation where he might take advantage of it. And not in a good way, either. I mean in a roofie-slipping kind of way.