littlelily613 wrote:
(...)While generally impossible to avoid, I also do not like sitting next to people because I have sensory issues with light touch, and I don't want people to put their arms and legs gently on me. I also cannot tolerate standing, though sometimes I don't have a choice. This is because I have poor strength in my arms and my hands and terrible balance. I find it very difficult to stand on a crowded bus.
I had problems with people sitting next to me in the past too, but I got used to it. Except when their smell irritates me (strong odors too). One of my whims is when the passenger sitting behind me pushes his legs (knees) to the back of my seat, varies it, it's just plain annoying.
Usually I'm fine with timetables, if I'm unsure, I ask someone on cellphone to give me advice. On long travels I carry by myself a book or newspaper that I try to read although I'm not always able to. I can't sleep on buses or trains while they're moving.