Trichotillomania has really affected my eye-contact. I don't really have natural eye-contact with people, because I'm always trying to look straight at them to avoid them seeing I have no eyelashes. I never let people watch me from the side and I try to wear bangs so my eyes don't show when my head is down. It's a real pain. Nowadays I've decided not to care so much, there aren't any evil teen-witches around me anymore, but my mannerisms are still programmed to deflect attention from my eyelashes. And I can never go outside without make-up, it gives me a panic-attack. That probably stems from cruel remarks by girls as I was growing up.
Anyhow, I notice that in the brief periods I have eyelashes I'm much more comfortable looking down than up at people. I want lashes so I don't have to worry about where my eyes are at. But it's ridiculously difficult to stop. A few years ago I was at a support site for hair-pullers and someone described resisting the urge like having á fly crawling over your lower lip without shooing it away....