No Middle Ground Between The Right And Wrong

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Do you feel as though when given a choice, there's a right and wrong answer?
Yes 33%  33%  [ 7 ]
Kinda 38%  38%  [ 8 ]
What? 14%  14%  [ 3 ]
Not really 10%  10%  [ 2 ]
No 5%  5%  [ 1 ]
Total votes : 21

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03 Nov 2009, 12:05 am

Just a quick question/poll before I go to bed, but does anybody else feel that when you're given a choice or asked for an opinion that could effect other people even in the slightest (for example, which of two movies you'd like to see) that there's a right and wrong answer? Because I've been noticing this more and more recently that if I'm given an option that will also effect others, I'll act as though I'm indifferent. I just hate making decisions like that, because I usually try to lean towards making choices that will please others more than myself, since I don't take joy in having influence over the smaller things nearly as much as I've noticed NT's do. But in these instances it's impossible to tell if they have any objections or favoritisms, or how strong they might be. :?



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03 Nov 2009, 12:09 am

Klint wrote:
Just a quick question/poll before I go to bed, but does anybody else feel that when you're given a choice or asked for an opinion that could effect other people even in the slightest (for example, which of two movies you'd like to see) that there's a right and wrong answer? Because I've been noticing this more and more recently that if I'm given an option that will also effect others, I'll act as though I'm indifferent. I just hate making decisions like that, because I usually try to lean towards making choices that will please others more than myself, since I don't take joy in having influence over the smaller things nearly as much as I've noticed NT's do. But in these instances it's impossible to tell if they have any objections or favoritisms, or how strong they might be. :?



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03 Nov 2009, 12:20 am

I'm afraid to answer these questions because I don't want to make or say the wrong answer. It's really hard for me to even deal with that.


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03 Nov 2009, 12:24 am

If someone asks me a direct question, such as, do you like this movie or that movie, I answer very directly. Unless they are two movies that I like for very different reasons. When it comes to answering a question, I don't really care about the opinion of others. I'll just answer with my own opinion.


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03 Nov 2009, 12:42 am

There are right and wrong answers; but sometimes the answers have equivalent value, so that they are equally right, neutral, or wrong. In that case, personal preference followed by whim or random chance should decide.


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