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If you answered "no" for going to college why so?
Behavioral Problems 20%  20%  [ 1 ]
Lack of Interest 20%  20%  [ 1 ]
Anxiety 40%  40%  [ 2 ]
Poor Academic Skills 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Inability to Cope to Changes 20%  20%  [ 1 ]
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15 Sep 2010, 2:17 pm

For the parents who have kids or teens that are higher functioning autism/aspergers, do you think they can successfully go to college?

And for the parents that are unsure: I was diagnosed with moderate autism when I was little. I had extreme behavioral problems until I was fifteen years old.

I got into a good public university with a fast growing reputation (University of California Riverside). I have successfully got along with all my roommates, got great grades, and a great experience so far.

Best of all, for the first time in my life, I feel like I belong. So feel free to share your concerns or ask any questions.



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15 Sep 2010, 2:27 pm

Might wanna link this in the parenting forum.



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15 Sep 2010, 2:35 pm

Oh, how do I do that? I am sorry, I am new here so I am not familar with what linking a topic means.



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15 Sep 2010, 2:35 pm

techn0teen wrote:
For the parents who have kids or teens that are higher functioning autism/aspergers, do you think they can successfully go to college?[


It doesn't seem terribly likely at the moment. But I would love to be proved wrong. Being proved wrong is my biggest secret hope. The doctors sure haven't said anything uplifting. But then again, it seems that they never say anything uplifting regardless because they don't want to give "false hope" (their words) to parents.

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And for the parents that are unsure: I was diagnosed with moderate autism when I was little. I had extreme behavioral problems until I was fifteen years old.

I got into a good public university with a fast growing reputation (University of California Riverside). I have successfully got along with all my roommates, got great grades, and a great experience so far.


That is thrilling to read. I am happy for you and am always excited to read about other peoples' success stories. I hope that someday my daughter is able to post a success story of her own.

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Best of all, for the first time in my life, I feel like I belong. So feel free to share your concerns or ask any questions.


My question is- what happened at age 15 that turned things around for you?



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15 Sep 2010, 2:56 pm

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My question is- what happened at age 15 that turned things around for you?


For Janissy: I met an understanding and brilliant teacher. He taught me physics and his passion for science, logic, and order suddenly made me see that the world around me did not have to be bad. It could be understood and be beautiful.

It also made me more observant of cause and effect. I would just run out of the class at school but then I asked myself why? Just like a good scientist would.

I then realized the cause of my extreme behaviors, and I helped myself my removing or minimizing the cause.



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15 Sep 2010, 3:04 pm

techn0teen wrote:
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My question is- what happened at age 15 that turned things around for you?


For Janissy: I met an understanding and brilliant teacher. He taught me physics and his passion for science, logic, and order suddenly made me see that the world around me did not have to be bad. It could be understood and be beautiful.

It also made me more observant of cause and effect. I would just run out of the class at school but then I asked myself why? Just like a good scientist would.

I then realized the cause of my extreme behaviors, and I helped myself my removing or minimizing the cause.


Aha! That makes sense. Thanks for answering.



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15 Sep 2010, 3:28 pm

techn0teen wrote:
Oh, how do I do that? I am sorry, I am new here so I am not familar with what linking a topic means.

http://www.wrongplanet.net/forum19.html

I mean just post it there. Instead of copying the post again you can just link it there if you want. That's where the parents congregate.