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ShadesOfMe
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20 Mar 2006, 6:37 pm

so a few minutes ago at school I was standing with some friends waiting to get picked up. when I here this guy calling my aspie friend a ret*d. I mention it quietly to him, and he says yeah, the jerk pushed him down for know Bleeping reasonin the hall or wherever! so I go up to the little bleephole and say " insert his name here, stop talking s**t about people." and something along the lines of "we can here it even thugh you think we can't." he basically ignored us. but theb the jerk has the nerve to come up and say " why you having a girl fight you battles?!" which insulted us both. so I chased after him and pushed him into the wall. when he stumbled I pushed him again he goes "what the f**k?!" and I started beating him in the head with my purse.(my only weapon) I dropped my purse and my phone in the scuffle and my mom was on the line I didn't realise. he yells "I'm going to tell officer insert name here!" and he ran off. so then my senior friend who's been around the block a few times says the kids in the local gang, and he's seen him with a switch knife and they will come after me! I'm freaking out! and what if they send me to the office?! the assistant principal is awful! I'm scared!! !! !! my stepdad wants to lie and tell my special ed teacher it was him provoking and all that and i did nothing, but it's a lie! I don't know!! my mom says I should never have thrown the first punch!



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20 Mar 2006, 6:50 pm

Well he WAS provoking you, so I don't think thats really a lie....
Anyway, be very careful if you see that guy around again, if he really is in a gang 8O


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20 Mar 2006, 7:09 pm

High explosives are the answers to all lifes problems :)

On a seroius note:

You did (mostly) the right thing. Although I don't see how a purse could have done that much damage I congradulate you for standing up for what is right. If he threatend you in any way, you can get him in severe trouble. If he was assaulting your friend, he was assaulting you. Jerks like that deserve to suffer.



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20 Mar 2006, 7:30 pm

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You did (mostly) the right thing. Although I don't see how a purse could have done that much damage I congradulate you for standing up for what is right. If he threatend you in any way, you can get him in severe trouble. If he was assaulting your friend, he was assaulting you. Jerks like that deserve to suffer.


And if you get called into the office or anything just tell them he was threating you and you didn't feel safe play up the defenceless girl part. Watch out for the gang stuff but he probally would not want his friends knowing he ran away from you



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20 Mar 2006, 9:01 pm

Ok, if you get called up for a talk then just say truths dont lie at all if you get punished just take it. You know it wasent your falut just hint it out that the boy said somthing that just ticked you off abit then say what you did and why.


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20 Mar 2006, 10:04 pm

ShadesOfMe wrote:
so a few minutes ago at school I was standing with some friends waiting to get picked up. when I here this guy calling my aspie friend a ret*d. I mention it quietly to him, and he says yeah, the jerk pushed him down for know Bleeping reasonin the hall or wherever! so I go up to the little bleephole and say " insert his name here, stop talking s**t about people." and something along the lines of "we can here it even thugh you think we can't." he basically ignored us. but theb the jerk has the nerve to come up and say " why you having a girl fight you battles?!" which insulted us both. so I chased after him and pushed him into the wall. when he stumbled I pushed him again he goes "what the f***?!" and I started beating him in the head with my purse.(my only weapon) I dropped my purse and my phone in the scuffle and my mom was on the line I didn't realise. he yells "I'm going to tell officer insert name here!" and he ran off. so then my senior friend who's been around the block a few times says the kids in the local gang, and he's seen him with a switch knife and they will come after me! I'm freaking out! and what if they send me to the office?! the assistant principal is awful! I'm scared!! !! !! my stepdad wants to lie and tell my special ed teacher it was him provoking and all that and i did nothing, but it's a lie! I don't know!! my mom says I should never have thrown the first punch!


You go girl!! ! I'm not sure that this guy will give you any more problems. It would be "sissy" of him to fight a girl. He might try to find a girl bigger than you to kick your butt though. Be on the lookout for that one!!


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20 Mar 2006, 10:11 pm

I say go matrix on him :P

getting serious again:

a. carry pepper spray (just kidding)
b. if he gives you any trouble get him suspended
c. make sure your friend stays away from him as your friend will most likly be a bigger target from now on out.
d. Don't do anything to provoke him, just ignore him.
hope my limited advice helps



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20 Mar 2006, 10:42 pm

Why do boys hate being beat by girls?



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20 Mar 2006, 10:44 pm

I don't know, I know several girls who would wipe the floor with me. Girls are just as strong as guys, its stupid stereo typing that makes morons feel superior.



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20 Mar 2006, 10:46 pm

I feel very strange about it. pushing him, attacking him with my purse. I just don't want to get into trouble. and I'm done wth this stupid school and the stupid people in it!



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20 Mar 2006, 11:13 pm

considerd home-schooling? it works great.



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20 Mar 2006, 11:16 pm

I tried it for part of last year. but my mom says I have to finish out the school year at this school and then we'll see what happens. but it seriousy makes me depressed. very badly deprressed. i come home and feel so horrible.



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21 Mar 2006, 12:54 am

He deserved it.



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21 Mar 2006, 6:21 am

There is a mounting body of evidence that women are losing all their feminine charm and becoming aggressive louts. John Bird reporting for Channel 5 News Live. John Fortune reporting for Channel 4 News Late Edition.



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21 Mar 2006, 11:59 am

:roll:



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21 Mar 2006, 6:54 pm

BirdandFortune wrote:
There is a mounting body of evidence that women are losing all their feminine charm and becoming aggressive louts. John Bird reporting for Channel 5 News Live. John Fortune reporting for Channel 4 News Late Edition.


Better watch yourself, dude. I might come after your sorry bee-hind too!

anyway, I didn't get in trouble. my teacher and the classroom aids are shadowing me and making sure i'm ok. so I guess everything will be fine. but I'm still a bit worried.