Preparing for dr's visit, any advice?

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Hi everyone,

I made an appointment today for a visit with an Autism/Asperger's specialist (I don't know if I have it, but the symptom list is like a personality profile!). Unfortunately, the next available appointment is June, but I figure this will give me time to gather my thoughts about everything. I'm planning on researching etc, until then, but I was wondering if anyone had any ideas about how I might prepare myself or what I can expect. Any advice would be welcomed. Thank you!

The most important thing is to be honest and truthful. As questions are asked, don't get nervous, just answer them truthfully. If you have had painful moments in your life, and you are asked about them, don't ignore them in the office---talk about them. The doctor needs to have a complete view of your life along with its challenges. Something you might do is to compile notes on your life---from early childhood to however old you are now. By compiling notes, this can help the doctor. If you are like me, I sometimes goof up a bit when I try to communicate verbally, so having notes on my life helped both the clinician and myself.

As to what to expect---it can vary. My diagnosis came in a relaxed office in Cincinnati, Ohio. My son's diagnosis came in a more typical psychiatrist's office where the doctor sat behind a big desk. Basically, the doctor will talk to you and utilize diagnostic criteria. You may or may not be given tests to complete. The main thing is---there is nothing to get nervous about. I look back on my diagnosis appointment and found it to be comforting. It is was really an interesting experience. Getting my diagnosis of AS gave me a new journey in life---a journey of understanding my eccentric life. I went through some therapy afterwards. My son now has an IEP which has helped him tremendously in school. So think of positives that may come from your appointment.

Glider,

Thank you so much for your thoughtful advice and sharing your experience with me. Compiling notes is a great idea - I always goof up, too - I'll do that, the notes, I mean .

The NAS recommends you pick a good example of your difficulties from each 'category' of ASD difficulties, if I remember correctly. I'd recommend you have a look at the NAS website.

I make notes nearly every time I go to see a doctor about anything, otherwise I am likely to forget what I'm trying to say!

Thank you very much, Kajjie. I will definitely check out their website. I have to write everything, too.