Matt55 wrote:
I think they should create a new subcatagory of Asperger's Syndrome called Atypical Asperger's Syndrome, to describe those few individuals who are even higher functioning than most Aspies, and don't meet the full criteria, yet have difficulties primarily in social situations. They might get stuck on one or two topics for a while, but it's not to the extent of "classic Asperger's", someone with Atypical Asperger's has a wide variety of "special interests".
You are not alone. I feel I am between two worlds but I lean more towards AS because my mind works different than NTs. But I seem to have everything from my childhood. The inflexibility I had, difficulty with change, the obsessions, narrow interests, problems with social situations, motor mannerisms, fiddling with objects, lack of TOM, difficulty understanding feelings. But I have gotten better and now I do fine with change and I am flexible and I have learned TOM, and I don't think my interests are narrow anymore. I don't always show everything so that's what makes me a borspie. I guess that's why they say I'm mild but yet I have bad learning difficulties, I am very literal, I even have difficulty with metaphors and idioms when I first hear them, I never get tired of the same things over and over. Some people don't think I am a borspie but that's their opinion and just as long as it's not the "You don't have AS" I don't care what they think. They just have their own view on what a borspie is and think I can't be a borspie if I have all these difficulties. I say I am because I am flexible and I can work and I do fine with change. I can talk to people and can have normal conversations off and on. Even my mom agrees I am a borspie. But I was never a little professor and I scored low on IQ tests growing up and had classic autistic behavior and by age eight my autistic characteristics weren't as prominent.