kolrabi wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
I find this is harsh little bit ....ok autistic kids may become really good in programming and productives but autistic kids are ... afterall kids , not machines and they need fun too.
But programming
is fun. I don't understand what you mean.
I've seen that firsthand with my sister's boyfriend too. For him, programming IS fun. He loves it and spends as much time doing it as he possibly can, and he says he started doing stuff like that when he was only 4 or 5 years old. It all worked out for him - he finished school a few months ago and this week he just started his first professional job - a high-paying job programming.
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
IMO I think kids with AS and autism need videogames, need sports, need partying, need all that stuff just because they need something that will counteract the rigidity that it puts over people.
I can definitely see that side of things too, especially with the way this past week has been going for me. That rigidity, obsessiveness, etc seems to be at an all-time high and I know I'm really annoying everyone around me.
(As a kid my parents didn't know anything about autism or AS, but I was allowed to be as rigid and routine as I wanted - in fact I think it was encouraged and that's something I wish my parents had done differently.) Just last night I walked into the living room to find my sister's boyfriend sitting in the spot where I usually sit. Something minor like that shouldn't have been a problem, but this time it threw me off so much that I couldn't even sit down even though there were lots of other spots. A few minutes later we went into the kitchen to get our supper and brought it back into the living room - my sister's boyfriend, who understands what it's like to be so rigid about certain things, stayed back and said, "You go in there first and sit wherever you wanna sit." That made it easier for me, but at the same time I think it would have been better for me if they forced me to sit somewhere else. So anyway, getting back to the programming vs video games etc for kids, I think kids definitely need to be doing a variety of things - don't let em get so rigid. Yeah, autistic kids need routines and stability etc, but I've gotta say it's best to keep that stuff to a minimum right from an early age. My sister and my husband have been conspiring against me over the last couple of months since she moved in - trying to shake up the obsessive side of me, get rid of some of that rigidity... the way she explained it to him though was "You can only do little things. There's a line that you can't cross - you just want to mess her up a little bit, you don't wanna make her crazy." That's probably why my obsessiveness seems to be getting worse lately - a natural response to those little things they're doing. I'm expecting that after a rough patch it should get better though - better than it ever was before. I'm definitely looking forward to seeing some self-improvement in that area.
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