Were your friends push overs?

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When I think about it, the only people I have ever gotten along with are what could be considered pushovers. My bestfriend in kindergarden, first, second and fourth grade did extactaly what I said and I wonder if they were truely my friend or just afraid of me. If I couldn't boss other kids around I would refuse to play with them, yet if other kids tried to boss me around they gave up very quickly. I always had a dominate streak...perhaps even a God complex. If I was born into a meerkat mob or a wolf pack, I would be the alpha female as soon as I learned to walk. If boys were not afraid of me, they were usualy bullies and only the stupid ones gave me trouble post getting a lesson about leaving me alone. Even my friends today are brown nosers or extremely agreeable.

No but most of my friends had their own trips not necessarily pushovers. I know what you mean though as I have certain friends like that...

No, the opposite, my friends wouldn't let anyone tell them what to do. However, most of them also would not try to tell anyone else what to do.

I was the one, who was the pushover.

For some reason I never attracted pushovers. Only strong minded people. The only real close friends I had were not pushovers. I had other friends who sort of were.. wern't really "friends" and a lot of pushovers didn't have anything to do with me.

I was the one who was bossy and I was used by them. Then when their interests changed, they stopped coming over. I also think some kids in my school were friends with me because they felt obligated just because I came out of special ed. Same as at my old school I was in special ed so some felt obligated to be my friend.

I don't think I had any pushovers.

I was never leader, my friends were never pushovers. I often followed, but only so far as it suited me.

I never really thought of it much of who is domanant in my friendships. most of my friends are very open minded and can think for themselves....sometimes alittle too much.
I dont draw wimps...just weirdos. I guess because normal people are weirder to to me than the weirdos. All people are nuts to some degree or another, normal people are better at hiding it.

In most of elementary I was like that. I would just state my ideas and argue, forcing my opinions onto others; that was my way of communicating. The pushovers I 'played' with in this manner was always a girl and I never figured out whatever was happening then, I guess being forcefully yourself and having your misconduct and rudeness seen as playful teasing had something to do with it, that or they had a love for drama haha. Nowadays only my casual friends could be pushovers, not many 234 tops.

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