KakashiYay wrote:
This is interesting, thanks.
After I made this thread, my husband informed me that I *think* I'm much faster in conversation than I am. "You're quick witted and can read fast, but you get bogged down on all the details and what-ifs, and it takes you forever to figure out what I'm saying."
: ( The Dunning–Kruger effect strikes again!
Same here. I'm very fast with a joke or an observation and can call up things I already know very quickly. Thinking on my feet makes up for the fact that I don't anticipate well at all. Chess or even checkers is very difficult for me because I can never figure out an opponent's move. Pretty embarrasing for a guy who prides himself on usually being the smartest one in the room. My typical response to losing a game like that is "Wanna play Trivial Pursuit?"
To an outsider it looks like I'm planning ahead but I'm really just compensating and reacting very quickly. To me it's like when you see a large flock of small birds flying around- they seem to all turn at once by instinct, but if you were to watch them in slow-motion there is actually a leader bird and the others are following.
Does that make sense to anyone else?
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